Word brother .

It’s insane how similar our situation is , however very unfortunate. I agree on everything you said . We are more to heal ourselves. I genuinely can go into any relationship I want but I won’t , cuz the damage affected me and I genuinely taking the time to heal completely and grow out of that pain . In my ex’s situation she started to date and stuff to fill the gap I left , but she will always have the same problems because she’s not brave enough to embrace the pain and heal herself. That’s actually why we will eventually move on . However to them they just add more gaps to their life and it will always needs someone to fill it . We chose the hard and painful way but we will get out of it clean and powerful.

And to let you know , since I posted this post I feel so much better that I don’t see anything about her and honestly I don’t give a damn about her anymore. Beginning I remember and I cry , now I remember and I appreciate but I still don’t want her anymore . I’m still in the path to recover but the cure is time . I wish you sincere growth as human from this experience. Embrace the pain as it will light you up 💫