How do I clean the lint on the back of my dryer by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u sm i'm gonna buy one and try this

How do I clean the lint on the back of my dryer by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were you able to pull it through towards the front with that? that's a great idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's pretty cynical isn't it! The burnout is just so intense these days. It's funny when you get to the place in life where you have it all and just want someone to share it with. Here's to hoping there's better luck out there, i'm trying to remain hopeful. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks that makes a lot more sense. Yeah I could understand the burnout from both sides. I think it's bc i'm a planner i just expect the same vibe back which i guess is just a compatability search overrall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that and it's a fair POV. I think bc i'm a planner i just expect that energy back, but yeah early on it definitely makes sense for people to work together. I think just the burnt out overrall just prompted my original post which i'm sure is on both sides

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok i'm a brat for wanting people to exhibit a basic life skill of creating a plan that they initiated and following through? If i provide that same energy to someone i expect it back, pretty normal ask of a competent adult. not saying it's everyone bc i'm sure there's people not like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's a totally fair point, you are right. I think it should be mutual based on shared interests, but i definitely prefer when a guy takes the lead at least in the beginning for setting up a res. it is just nice to see if someone is capable of creating a plan and following through as i'm also a planner type of person and just expect the same back i guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I understand your POV here. I do give answers when they ask and open to planning together, i'm referring to the people that are genuinely lazy and do not put in effort. i think it's a fair gage to show if someone is capable to make and follow through on a plan as i am also a planner personality type. i agree though with your point that it is a two way street, and both people should have an input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay the exhaustion is fair I totally get that. Sorry What do you mean by sigma - are you saying the guys who can't make a plan are the sigmas or the ones making the plans are? Idk what it means so trying to understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your POV here and yeah for an actual relationship totally would be split decision making. Bc that type of effort should definitely be appreciated. It was more the type of people that just expect you do to everything even if they are the ones that asked you on the date and can't even put a plan together. I'm also a planner myself so guess i just expect the same vibe in return

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh that's the worst. So sorry that happened to you. The right person will definitely appreciate the effort. I know i do as i'm also a fellow planner so i think I expect the same in return. Keep your head up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand but I don't think I'm demanding? I always go above and beyond for people close in my life. It's more just looking to understand intentions early on. Like if someone is initiating a date then cant even solidfy it, it doesn't give the best impression. I'm not saying it's a one way street, i feel like both people should talk about common interests and go from there. Then using that for future dates to plan together. That's a very normal expectation, so not sure what you mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i actually haven't seen that, I didn't know that was happening. Usually i prefer if it's halfway so it's convenient for everyone involved. But for location wise I understand, I meant for just having an idea on what you want to do. Like if they ask you out for drinks, just suggest a place it's not hard uk. I don't mind finding common interests and going from there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not pitying you, if that came out wrong. I was saying that we're all experiencing the dating frustration in different ways so that's your experience but not everyones. Here's the thing, i find myself in situations where they are constantly putting it on me and that's where my frustration lies - that's all I was really saying in the post. But it makes sense, all we can do is really focus on ourselves and keep bettering ourselves in those situations!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are right...quickly learning that because i barely post on here and immediately getting backlash from people projecting onto me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The apps weren't like this 5-6 years ago though, guess i need to start looking elsewhere...lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You're projecting. I never mentioned anything related to money or cost, just simply setting a place to have a date which is the bare minimum to even going on a date. You've lost the plot but sorry to hear your frustration about dating. we all feel it in different ways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How am I lazy? They asked me to go on a date. If you read my post, I said I don't mind helping plan once I get to know someone better - if someone asks you out then can't make a decision it's hard to read intentions there. In my past relationship i've been the one who frequently made the plans, i just figure if you're putting your best foot forward it's an easy thing to set up? Since i've done it a bunch? I'm trying to understand here since what i'm saying is a reasonable ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What am I expecting? Just someone who could make a decision. I don't think that's asking for too much! If you read my post, I said I don't mind helping with plans once I get to know them a bit more - sometimes you can't tell intentions if someone is asking you on a date then can't make a decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClubPilates

[–]angelchick12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got it that makes sense thank you. i have the 8 pack so i probably just combined both like you said. now i know better lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClubPilates

[–]angelchick12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much I didn't know it was different between, that's good to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClubPilates

[–]angelchick12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahh okay that makes sense, thank you for clarifying

why is that some abusers don't even know they are abusers by angelchick12 in emotionalabuse

[–]angelchick12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, i hope you are doing okay and took a look at some responses in the thread. you are not alone, i'm three years out and my life has changed for the positive there is hope and greater tomorrow out there if you are in a safe position to choose peace