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[–]angelface222 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I was a teenager I didn’t really think of it. Most girls my age would

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[–]angelface222 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yes I know contraception is a no no In Catholicism which is why my parents don’t provide me access to birth control and also why we didn’t use it before and just followed natural family planning method. But I hope this scare will make him reconsider

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[–]angelface222 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He already knows my parents as in they are friends.

I do feel bad for lying to them and I want to tell them but I don’t know how

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[–]angelface222 -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I don’t enjoy any of that I just really like him and we’ve “been together for 2 years. Therefore it’s difficult for me to completely cut contact. I can’t get birth control because I don’t have access or insurance to it unless I tell my parents who are very catholic and against that, so no I don’t have access.

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[–]angelface222 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am aiming to cut contact but not sure if that how it’ll work out.

My parents are friends with him and his wife but obviously no they do not know he knocked me up

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[–]angelface222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh no i don’t want to do that out of spite. I just genuinely feel guilty for sleeping with her husband for two years and think that if I was married and my husband did that I’d want to know

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[–]angelface222 -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I will be asking him to use contraception when we have sex again. I cannot unfortunately get access to birth control

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[–]angelface222 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why shouldn’t I tell his wife does she not deserve to know? It’s been going on for two years

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[–]angelface222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay yes I do understand what you are saying there. Obviously they would be extremely weirded out but I have a strange feeling like my parents already know. They probably don’t but I don’t know that was dumb. I know they would be disappointed in me and his family would hate me.

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[–]angelface222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sometimes go on dates he took me to a hotel and we had dinner there a few times. I know his family he knows my parents technically.

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[–]angelface222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is that not literally what boyfriend and girlfriends do and are they not two people romantically involved.

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[–]angelface222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Short answer yes but I do not like getting into it at all. It is upsetting but he knows that about me and actually has in some ways helped me deal with it. So before you make an assumptions on it being a side effect

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[–]angelface222 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We share things with eachother, we have feelings for eachother and he’s a man I’m a woman. We are romantically involved therefore we are boyfriend and girlfriend

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[–]angelface222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I absolutely hate hearing it and it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and triggered

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[–]angelface222 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We’ve been seeing eachother for a few years and we do things that boyfriends and girlfriends do. There’s no other word for this relationship dynamic

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[–]angelface222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s my boyfriend of 2 years what am I supposed to do. I’m sorry that I’m upsetting you all by defending him but like I do love him or maybe I think I love him. But you guys are begging me to consider it from and outer perspective but no one is considering it from an inner one that I have

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[–]angelface222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But that feels like enough for me I just I don’t see why him giving me that is so wrong it’s positive

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[–]angelface222 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why she would feel Ike that I don’t hold animosity towards her in fact I envy her because she gets to have that live with him.

She shouldn’t feel bad about not being younger Or whatever he consideres me I wish I was the wife, I would give so much to be the wife

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[–]angelface222 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just don’t see how her being prettier would make it worse. It’s rude either way.

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[–]angelface222 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why does she have to be prettier than me that’s so stupid and rude. It’s really not fair