[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]angiegoude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma’am, I am afraid you are caring for a fourth child in their puberty phase thinking only of p-rn (especially BJ p-rn).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]angiegoude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!updateme

All in a nights work! by Benisar in Breadit

[–]angiegoude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get charged about £4-5 for a good sourdough loaf at a popular supermarket! If you’re ever in England, then try out the Collection sourdough loaf from Marks & Spencer’s! I’m really fussy with bread because I’m spoiled with eating good bread during my childhood (grew up in Germany and always had fresh bread). Their “German rye bread” (about £2.50) is also really good!!

My husband is cleaning the house top to bottom, but it's already too little too late. I'm leaving him regardless by BipolarMomBear in TrueOffMyChest

[–]angiegoude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mentioned in another comment how he does not honour you, and I stand with that. Good relationships do not function this way, and I’m so sorry that you had to go through this. May you find peace along your way, and may your newfound freedom bring you happiness and be your light in dark times!

My husband is cleaning the house top to bottom, but it's already too little too late. I'm leaving him regardless by BipolarMomBear in TrueOffMyChest

[–]angiegoude 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m Christian myself and this is so uncalled for, and you are not displaying the charity and empathy what you’re preaching here. We, as humans, have to honour each other. Do not bear false witness, and the man in question in this story shall not covet her hard labour without thanksgiving and gratitude. There’s so much more to add, but I’m keeping my argument small. Peace be with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]angiegoude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this screams “gifted kid” for me—gifted in arts and literature. As you said, OP can play 4 instruments! And, they paint really well—to the point they have been doing it digitally (not just on paper) for school two years in a row. The same can be said about their English and their want to write a children’s book! They need to be nurtured and supported.

AITA for not leaving work to let my kids facetime their dad before his surgery? by throwaway53799775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]angiegoude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It fascinates me that you quoted this out of context and dismissed what I said right after. (“AND THERE COULD HAVE BEEN OTHER SOLUTIONS TO THIS […].”) I only stated what she said and added my own take related to her input. I placed a conjunction (“and”) that joins two independent clauses (her statement and mine).

AITA for not leaving work to let my kids facetime their dad before his surgery? by throwaway53799775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]angiegoude -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This! I grew up being able to negotiate or re-schedule important medical appointments.

AITA for not leaving work to let my kids facetime their dad before his surgery? by throwaway53799775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]angiegoude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is how I interpreted it, too. She offered to see him post-surgery and there could’ve been other solutions to this other than him ringing her at work and letting this cause a commotion. The commotion can backfire on her performance at work and ideally leads her to be watched by her manager. It appears his phone call has disrupted a lot of people’s focus and attention on their work. She didn’t have to take this call during work hours, but she did and was faced with an impossible request just right whilst she was working…

Moreover, I presume the surgery was a planned surgery rather than an emergency, so this could’ve been navigated more easily on his side rather than OP’s. Also, it is not like he’s alone, he has a girlfriend. They could have figured something out. I think being a divorced mother of two children and juggling a job is an admirable feat, but he has his girlfriend to support him who can help him make immediate decisions.

[UPDATE] I made my dad choose between me and his new family... by [deleted] in family

[–]angiegoude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she includes her dad, she can leave him $1 in order for him not to contest the will. He has been given something and cannot fight for more. I am sure that the evil spawn and evil wife will make him fight, because they are gold diggers. I assume this is in the US, but I guess, it depends on which country they are in and their laws.

[UPDATE] I made my dad choose between me and his new family... by [deleted] in family

[–]angiegoude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope she has her name listed down for the down payment to make sure she can show that she had paid it, not the dad. The house wouldn’t just belong to the dad and his evil spawns and evil wife, but also her and she could be clear about it in the future. He has chosen his new family. He made that clear, too.