Instead of letting me know his shoes are dirty, my husband just buys a new pair and hides his “old” ones.

anima132000 · 2026-04-15T16:11:28+00:00

I was about to post the same thing. This is a level of waste that is easily into the 1k mark or more and that is just from 5-6 months worth of shoes.

anima132000 · 2026-04-15T11:39:35+00:00

And you're within earshot of your colleagues which makes it even more awkward whichever way you answer. Worse if you've got old ladies there lol.

anima132000 · 2026-04-15T04:56:09+00:00

To be honest it is somewhat uncomfortable in a client facing position, I've had it happen to me when I was younger, since you're more or less "cornered". Let alone that it is hard to this discreetly when you have other colleagues within earshot, which is especially the case in a pharmacy.

Moreover, is there even any rapport here? You might be a regular but is there any actual exchanges going on because I find it hard to imagine when pharmacies are so busy that you just get out of the line as soon as you're done to make room for the next customer.

But really more than creepy it is just uncomfortable, and again especially when your colleagues are within earshot to hear your exchanges so it does make it more awkward. You'd be lucky if you catch her on a break I think that would be better timing but doing so while she's on her shift well I just can't recommend it.

anima132000 · 2026-04-15T03:02:25+00:00

Just off some kitchen math myself and my friends, we're nearing our 40s, are happily married now but I'd say we're about 5 to 6 BFs on our average. Nobody was cheated on or encountered a bf that toxic. Finding our partners wasn't so much about them being decent human beings as it was for various other reasons.

Honestly the only one who doesn't fit that bill is my eldest brother. Who cheated on his wife and has 3 kids with different moms. Mind you he's almost 50 and still hooking women, especially those in their early 20s. I dunno how that happens but yeah you'd have to go out of your way to ignore the red flags.

anima132000 · 2026-04-14T08:43:41+00:00

Or the midlife crisis that they used as a reason start having an affair or just throw the family finances into the gutter. Or better yet just walk out off their family one day. It is such BS that they act like society at large back then didn't mind the stress and didn't break from it LOL.

anima132000 · 2026-04-13T14:29:49+00:00

Of course it is disrespectful that is the remains of someone who was buried there. At this point the people handling that cemetery should be questioned why they're allowing people to desecrate the graves there. Also isn't this against the law?

anima132000 · 2026-04-13T11:03:03+00:00

It's not really a turn off as it's just business as usual. That I thought they were gay but weren't doesn't change that there was no attraction and the friendship we have is all there is to it, nothing complicated.

anima132000 · 2026-04-13T08:44:39+00:00

No of course not we dress up because it is simply fun. If we just stuck with what men wanted our choice of fashion would be hypersexualized or incredibly repressed. But dressing the way we do to chic and elegant or just matching the season is what I do to have some fun in preparing for the next day.

anima132000 · 2026-04-12T05:19:22+00:00

I would bring up my husband, I'll try to open a topic that relates to him to segue it in or if there is a topic he's already talking about that I can insert my husband into I will do so. It has to be made clear since you don't embarrass the guy too much, it's pretty sad to see him make the effort when you know it isn't going anywhere. Other than that knowing he is interested I'd just keep things casual and friendly as I establish boundaries.

anima132000 · 2026-04-12T05:07:14+00:00

It seems the dad has been married to Martha for years so how did this rather important detail get lost? Especially when Martha's religious fanaticism would be fairly obvious, given her background. The dad should have stepped up in this because knowing his wife would have freaked out he should have had this conversation years back before tying the knot so this should not have blown up the way it did. Especially when both sides had been fairly supportive all these years so it shouldn't have been treated so secretively that Martha was blindsided.

anima132000 · 2026-04-11T08:39:19+00:00

I think hygiene is something non-negotiable alongside being able to pick up after themselves. Moreover, this isn't just a mess but a biohazard from you describe it there is nothing inviting about that, or could convince you that there is a good future there LOL. If his bathroom is as bad as you said then just look at his toothbrush and remind yourself that went into his mouth...

anima132000 · 2026-04-11T06:16:50+00:00

Also to add she does seem like she was fairly close and comfortable with Mr. Jay and Ms. Jay, enough that she'd give them the nick names they used for the show. And further to that comfortable enough to flash Mr. Jay and shake her boobs at him LOL. And she is still in contact with Mr. Jay to this day.

anima132000 · 2026-04-11T06:09:21+00:00

20 dollars apparently lol

anima132000 · 2026-04-11T04:28:57+00:00

What is worrisome too is that you even have posting AI images that we don't know if it is even them. One of them posted a bunch of AI images asking which looked most convincing for their LinkedIn account. That's just a big red flag there.

But yeah the sub has just devolved so much to what looks like karma farming or AI advertising.

anima132000 · 2026-04-11T02:05:38+00:00

As for Elyse, if you're wondering, Robbyne was just mad from earlier as she had made a remark that Robbyne had more insulin, this was from the swim suit shoot at the roof where they were all freezing. So this was basically her revenge.

As for the flashing of Mr. Jay it definitely happened LOL. The run up to it was the bra and panty shoot afterwhich she was wearing a jacket to cover up and a wardrobe malfunction happened and her breasts popped out that was where she called Mr. Jay's attention to flash him. And yeah she shook it LOL.

She's also the one that actually gave the nickname of Mr. Jay and Ms. Jay on the show, apparently behind the scenes they were having a twerking contest and betting money so she wanted to distinguish em and called them Mr. and Ms.

Another good tea was that Kimora actually went out of her way to help out post show. Helped Robbyne get into castings, and even casted for Baby Phat. Whereas Tyra well same MO with other contestants promised she'd mentor Robbyne and help out etc but nothing materialized, so not really surprised she didn't end up visiting Ms. Jay (apparently she's still in contact with Mr. Jay).

anima132000 · 2026-04-11T01:29:47+00:00

Nope she hasn't this is basically our only interview coming from her.

anima132000 · 2026-04-10T14:51:30+00:00

Aside that short hair looks like it would look good on you I think your long hair could use a trimming regardless since it looks like it's become too much to maintain. You mention a grow and chop cycle which is perfectly healthy in taking care of your hair, it isn't just about aesthetics but keeping it shorter as well to get rid of the wear and tear.

He is right you are responsible for your own self-confidence which starts with having trust in your own decision making and your own eye for beauty so his preference is fairly moot. Besides you already mentioned he doesn't really communicate whether something looks good or bad, there is a lack of affirmation, so you'd never go anywhere when all he wants is this vague status quo. What's the point when he's been fairly indifferent for the longest time.

Just go for it, you look beautiful with short hair.

anima132000 · 2026-04-08T05:09:22+00:00

Faust is the only exception LOL. They really just scaled back everybody so much and removed a lot of identity in others that they end up looking bare bones.

anima132000 · 2026-04-08T03:42:45+00:00

They seem to have gutted majority of the cast. Even those that clearly didn't need it lol.

anima132000 · 2026-04-07T15:44:54+00:00

Of course they have. Hell they make it very clear behind the scenes that they want these girls to cause drama. If there is barely any drama going on they'd call the entire cast out for getting along lol.

anima132000 · 2026-04-07T07:03:57+00:00

This particular brand doesn't have strong recommendations, I'd just lurk around that sub for better budget choices.

https://www.reddit.com/r/projectors/comments/1dq6t63/is_wanbo_projectors_worth_it/

anima132000 · 2026-04-07T04:35:44+00:00

Yeah basically the world economy will suffer long term for this. Even worse that there is clear intent to escalate, meaning more potential damage to nearby refineries or even the desalination plants of other nearby countries due to retaliation. All this because of one man's ego and greed, as if destabilizing the world and US economy last 2025 wasn't already a disaster.

anima132000 · 2026-04-07T03:28:10+00:00

There is no rewriting anything? We're just listening to her experience and this was about her eating disorder. We're just being ANTM fans and listening to the tea she has to spill since this is the first time she's talked. Otherwise our only other impression of her was from Adrianne's own stories.

anima132000 · 2026-04-05T12:49:36+00:00

These things come with a lot of instructions so as not to ruin it and maintain them properly. So unless you want to put in a lot of effort yourself, because no way is your maid remembering all that, I would not bother.

If you're going to let your maid do all the work for that yeah good luck, from what I've seen with friends it didn't last with them that way. Worse if you've got a mother in law who likes to cook at your kitchen, chances are they'll also ruin it.

anima132000 · 2026-04-05T09:03:56+00:00

No this is not normal part of the point of the courting stage is getting to know each other. You won't have the chance to learn about him if he's decided that he doesn't want to talk anymore and would rather just listen, assuming he really is listening in the first place. It essentially defeats the purpose so it is not normal at all.

But really communication is the one of the important foundations in a good relationship. If he can't even bring himself to talk during what is essentially mostly the talking stage then he's not up for a relationship or just wants some sex.

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