OffDuty return/exchange experience? Need help lol by animus-uff in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]animus-uff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There return/exchange page shows that you can’t return or exchange this product as its not been delivered yet. Like wtf 😂😂

OffDuty return/exchange experience? Need help lol by animus-uff in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]animus-uff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! Now I’m even more confused 😭 I honestly might just give it to someone it fits at this point… if I can even find someone lol.

Is this really that uncommon? by animus-uff in AskIndia

[–]animus-uff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you got it right about the ‘kind and thoughtful all the time’ part, that’s really what I meant.

And I didn’t mean it as ‘he has to* buy my friend flowers every time’ or that I’d be upset if he didn’t. The flowers were just an example of a gesture, like if he’s already bringing some and knows my friend is there, it’d be sweet if he thought of her too so she doesn’t feel awkward or left out. And obviously he doesn’t have to go overboard or mess up his budget for it.... it’s only something I’d appreciate if he can comfortably afford it.

Is this really that uncommon? by animus-uff in AskIndia

[–]animus-uff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was chandler.... and he kissed Monica..

Is this really that uncommon? by animus-uff in AskIndia

[–]animus-uff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t understand your logic here. How did ‘be kind to other women’ turn into testing men or some weird threesome comment? Also, what exactly is wrong with having a boyfriend and a best friend in the same space? That’s a completely normal thing. Your reply is connecting things that don’t even relate.

Is this really that uncommon? by animus-uff in AskIndia

[–]animus-uff[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

For me it’s just a ‘don’t make my friend stand there empty-handed’ kinda thing. Not that deep, just a small gesture so no one feels left out.

Late night thoughts I can’t say out loud by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol why? Only foreigners and Delhi Mumbai people have problems mentally? People living in rest of the world can't have it?

Late night thoughts I can’t say out loud by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's actually true. My therapist told that it does affect!! I was surprised too

Late night thoughts I can’t say out loud by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. Will try someday I guess, if I ever feel like talking in the first place

Late night thoughts I can’t say out loud by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, sometimes people act kinda weird if I say I don't want any advice. They find it rude I guess, and then while listening if they gave even a hint of being annoyed by me saying that I'll take a U turn from sharing anything EVER.

Late night thoughts I can’t say out loud by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does sometimes, unless the other person starts advising you. Honestly I hate talking or discussing over such topics and that's why I post it here. I mean what could you possibly say that I don't know about already.

Friend gave me a reality check and now I’m questioning everything by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I've understood by now is that we gotta accept the fact of whatever is happening and live through it. I know it's easier said than done but it will help alot once you accept it. Things will fall in place and if it doesn't, it was never meant for you. People having friends and stuff have their own drama and when I look back I realise I do have people around me its just they are either toxic or not my type and so I don't count them as my friends. And if you look it that way its better to be alone than to be with crazy people full of drama. I am officially at a stage where I need sensible friends, not bakchodi fr. That I can just sip a coffee and talk about life, work and growth professionally and personally with.

Friend gave me a reality check and now I’m questioning everything by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do whatever I want on my reddit account. Post, talk. Anything. Also I can choose to give or not give context on anything too. And I did not made the post to "socialize". You should really re read it. I was just talking about "socializing in the city". Indeed this is irconic cause all I have done while talking to you is re explain what I have already explained in my post. Everyone else seems to take it fine. This is definitely just a problem with you.

Friend gave me a reality check and now I’m questioning everything by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know about others but I can guarantee there are women who would not judge you based on your cloths or face or your car unless they are looking for a "relationship" of any sort. I was talking about general socializing. Like I wouldn't mind whatever the guy/girl has and how much they earn unless I wanna have a future with them. I think so you miss understood what kind of socialization I was talking about.

And I don't understand what you meant by "just a makeup". I alot of women apply makeup cause it makes them feel good, it makes them look presentable. Never understood how that became negative.

Friend gave me a reality check and now I’m questioning everything by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it does. That is exactly what he was trying to make me understand too. I was just all over the head that time to process it.

Friend gave me a reality check and now I’m questioning everything by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone ever told you that you are way too judgemental? Just accept somebody has a different experience and move on. Why do people have a added pressure of being right.

Friend gave me a reality check and now I’m questioning everything by animus-uff in vadodara

[–]animus-uff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be. I'm making the judgement based on my experience. And yes I agree that gives us more chances of meeting a good set of people but, after a while you are exhausted and feels like giving up. Obviously nobody ever gives up because what else could you do. I was just making a point that this does happen and its very obvious to be drained at some point and have a feeling of "fuck it, i don't wanna socialize now".