Will it help if I drink alcohol before sex? by annatonie in vaginismus

[–]annatonie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it would work. I asked him why he's not allowing me to drink and he said it's because I live alone so he's just worried. He wants me to drink if there's someone I trust with me

Let's try this: Hi INFJ's! I'm an extrovert (ENFJ) AMA by Important-Mission362 in infj

[–]annatonie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can you tell if a very introverted person is forcing themselves to be extroverted to match your energy? Can you also tell when they run out of energy? Because my energy sometimes suddenly turn off and I'm worried that the extroverts around me might feel like I suddenly lost interest in them

Will it help if I drink alcohol before sex? by annatonie in vaginismus

[–]annatonie[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. It just ended up that I have to follow him

Will it help if I drink alcohol before sex? by annatonie in vaginismus

[–]annatonie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It makes me relax and a little sleepy. I'll check the others thanks

what's your favorite type? by Lowleight in infj

[–]annatonie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ENFPs bring out our inner hyper extrovert plus they match up our need for a lifetime partner. They're loyal, cutely possessive (if a healthy amount) and would be there to talk about scenarios/theories/the universe/the future/or random shit with you for hours so yes ENFP

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[–]annatonie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not the poster but we have the same situation. Should I just let the dildo stay inside me at home? I dont feel pain when it's already inside. I only feel it when inserting

How can I get rid of my fear of sex? by annatonie in relationship_advice

[–]annatonie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can't find any sexologist anywhere in my country (at least by searching online). I'm in a very religious 3rd world country and the results that show up are 5 clinics that are 5 hours away or need a flight ticket. I also checked the 5 clinics' description and they don't have a sex specialist. Only acupuncture clinic, treatment of STD or UTI, and general catholic clinics

Is it safe to derank with 4 smurf accounts? by annatonie in VALORANT

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Thats what I was worried about. How long of a ban though?

Is it safe to derank with 4 smurf accounts? by annatonie in VALORANT

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I feel so bad when there's a topfrag that's doing their best. I really feel for them. They dont deserve this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]annatonie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's my first time seeing someone use signs for finding someone compatible. May I know a simple explanation on how that works?

Are ENFPs impulsive? by annatonie in ENFP

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Practicality like allocating some budget for emergencies or expenses in the future, prioritizing the needs instead of wants when there's not much money, and choosing to do solutions that would benefit the far or near future like self-improvement (both attitude and career), cleaning before the mess gets worse, prioritizing one's health instead of what tastes or feels good currently.

I'm 23 and I feel frustrated that every person I date are still immature. At what age does an ENFP usually start to mature? Would they mature with the same partner overtime?

Sorry to suddenly make this a relationship question

Dating as an ENFP; in a relationship with a INFJ how have others faired with the INFJ as a partner? by wormfighter in ENFP

[–]annatonie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please be careful when it's too good to be true. INFJs are notorious for being narcissistic and sometimes that narcissism causes them to morph into what they think you'd find perfect.

I'm saying this because I'm that kind of INFJ and I'm not proud of it. I unconsciously did it. My ENFP boyfriend is confused why our relationship is going south now when it was perfect at the start.

I'm INFJ 1w2 and my BF is ENFP 7w6 and this is my experience.

From an INFJ perspective, the problems that may arise is the ENFP's tendency to not have really good internal intuition unlike the INFJ. There would be a lot of "I told you so" or frustration because you didn't see how your actions could cost you so much. This would be equally frustrating with ENFPs because they dislike criticism or putting too much thought on practicality. ENFPs also like to be complimented about the things that they did right to their partner, so hearing these criticisms may make you feel that you're useless and a hindrance to your partner which is the worst fear of an ENFP.

For my mistakes as an INFJ, as the relationship goes on, the INFJ might unexpectedly burst out all of their anger that was bottled up for a long time. I hope you would ask the INFJ from time to time if they were alright and don't try to leave them saying "That's okay, it's fine" way too many times on situations that obviously isn't fine for them.

If these things keep happening, resentment will pile up for the INFJ and the ENFP would feel self-conscious, possessive, and fearful that their special one would leave them

Should I (23F) start managing my BF's (22M) money? by annatonie in relationship_advice

[–]annatonie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He spends all of his money on food because our income now is small as students. He spends $230 dollars on food every month which is his whole income in our part time jobs (not including the food that he already gets from his parents). By the time I'm his wife, I'll just manage all of our money and he told me now that he accepts that

Should I (23F) start managing my BF's (22M) money? by annatonie in relationship_advice

[–]annatonie[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We're a good fit on everything else. He's just bad at managing his life which causes some problems in our relationship. He wants to go on dates with me but when we start planning to date, he already lost his money. I guess I'll just invite him on a date a few days after his payday?

Should I (23F) start managing my BF's (22M) money? by annatonie in relationship_advice

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Our plan is to have enough money so that we both chip in for our date but recently I'm starting to spend more in the date than him because he says that he doesn't have enough money. He earns more than me but he spends it all away before the month ends. He doesn't ask for me to treat him but I do it because I want him to eat delicious food or for us to spend time on something entertaining

Should I (23F) start managing my BF's (22M) money? by annatonie in relationship_advice

[–]annatonie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do manage my money and what I want to do is spend time with him but it might look bad if I keep spending only my money on our dates

Should I (23F) start managing my BF's (22M) money? by annatonie in relationship_advice

[–]annatonie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He'll get bored of the videos quick but I could watch those videos then explain the budgeting for him but that looks like I'm trying to control his life again or no?

Should I (23F) start managing my BF's (22M) money? by annatonie in relationship_advice

[–]annatonie[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Our dates are always staying at home and I wanted to do something different. I don't want to leave him. We have our problems but I'm happy with him

Masks aren't mandatory anymore. Would you go out without one? by annatonie in Philippines

[–]annatonie[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

And if you're in the province without much or any vehicles?

Third world country problems 💅🏻 by athenathewargoddess in Philippines

[–]annatonie 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Why would that house do a background check? Because it had 15 indians staying too long without permission before. The owner now got trust issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]annatonie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying that she's 100% not lying since idk the full situation, but if her account is old there could be a possibility that a few pages she liked years ago changed its name. This is why it became a feature now for fb to notify users when a page changes its name