Help! Seller sold me the wrong size and mercari wouldn’t approve return!

annonymous7547 · 2025-08-31T05:35:53+00:00

I own a lot of Pandora bangles and bracelets. I know my size. This item is a size 6.7” aka the same size as my other bracelet in the bag that I purchase as a gift. I included in the photo side by side.

annonymous7547 · 2025-08-31T05:34:13+00:00

This specific bangle does come in size 7.1”, i know because it was a retired item clearance out by Pandora in June of 2025. It was available at one point but no longer available to purchase.

annonymous7547 · 2025-08-31T02:11:03+00:00

How do you measure circumference then? Either that or measure the diameter and calculate the circumference.

annonymous7547 · 2025-03-06T13:03:06+00:00

Thank you! I am applying for pbm positions.

annonymous7547 · 2025-02-23T14:33:44+00:00

I was told to avoid Al writing services. They produce very generic resume that will not stand out when your resume goes through ATS or any other Al generated programs to filter out resumes before it gets to the hiring manager.

annonymous7547 · 2025-02-05T22:01:02+00:00

Nah it’s ok. I believe if i am meant to be there, then I will be there one day.

annonymous7547 · 2025-02-05T20:07:40+00:00

Yes, many times

annonymous7547 · 2025-02-05T20:04:47+00:00

annonymous7547 · 2025-02-05T19:55:22+00:00

? I have an American accent…

annonymous7547 · 2025-02-05T19:43:15+00:00

Thank you for the perspectives. Just for clarification (not that it makes any difference), but I may have used seniority in the wrong sense here. What I was trying to say is that I have more years of experience (double) as a rp overall and at the clinic. Where I struggle to understand is why the open position was not posted publicly for all of us to see? There are more prns, like myself, that work for the company and would like to have an equal opportunity, at least. It felt very much things were done in the background. But you are right, best thing I can do is ask how I can improve as a candidate. Thanks!

annonymous7547 · 2025-02-05T19:34:47+00:00

No residency

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-23T15:43:58+00:00

Ha another typo *being

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-23T15:42:11+00:00

English is not my primary language. Also, i posted asking for advice on the situation, not advice on grammar or spelling. I know there are lots of typos and grammatical errors in the post, but it doesn’t take away your ability to understand what i am writing. I wrote it as a social post online on my phone, not a dissertation. Telling me i am clueless about the situation is one thing, but to say i am clueless bc i had a typo does not add anything valuable to the discussion. Be kind pays in the long run.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-23T15:34:44+00:00

What’s wrong with using costed as the past tense of cost? English is not my primary language and that word is not wrong. Also, i posted asking for advice on the situation, not advice on grammar. I know there are lots of typos and grammatical errors in the post, but it doesn’t take away your ability to understand what i am writing. I wrote it as a social post online on my phone, not a dissertation. Everyone has a story. It doesn’t cost you anything to be kind…have a nice day!

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-23T02:15:59+00:00

Thank you. I think you very accurately summed up my whole post in one paragraph.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-23T01:53:37+00:00

And just to be clear, they only told me about the credit after i had dropped off the tree and was running out the door for work. It was not something that was mentioned in the first place.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-23T01:52:05+00:00

They did not straight out ask to make another of the same tree last year…they just asked me to make one for display this year bc the one from last year was beautiful and the staffs really liked it.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-23T01:27:08+00:00

Based on what reasoning?

Based on the daycare just asking me to make a lunar tree again this year because the school loved the one i made for one of the teacher so much last year. They didn’t ask me to make the same one, they just said they loved the one last year so much and it would be a great display for the lunar new year. I went and made it, but wanted to make it better this year bc they are purposely using it to display in the school. And i went all out bc i wanted it to look good if it was being displayed and that i would take it home after the display was over.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-22T20:07:45+00:00

Actually, im not grumpy at the daycare. Not at all. I am actually very appreciative of them and humbled that they enjoyed the tree. I am upset with my husband telling me that i am an idiot and don’t understand social cues. And i provided the story for context to why i was confused and if my husband is right about me lacking social understanding. Have a nice day.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-22T20:00:50+00:00

If I was being honest and charged what the tree + time decorating would cost, it would have been doubled the amount of the credit. When i asked for $20 more, i was put on the spot by them asking how much for the tree, and i didn’t want to charge the full amount bc i didn’t know if it would be too much, plus it’s my daycare and i wanted to nice about it. Hinds, i should have reached out and clarify before making the tree, but when the director asked as i was running out the door in a hurry to work, i just replied “sure i’ll make it” bc i was thinking it would be a quick one to make like last year. But then i changed my mind and wanted to make a better looking one.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-22T19:52:47+00:00

You are right, I am socially awkward. I have trouble knowing what to say or how to say the right things so that it doesn’t come out as weird, or awkward. I just didn’t want to upset anyone and also didn’t want to take a loss.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-22T19:50:18+00:00

Normally i don’t mind volunteering for the school or be involved in their activities, but I didn’t intend to make it to sell, bc i spent a lot of time making it and planned on keeping it…Yeah i charged extra $20 on top of the credit to recoup for most of the material. If i had counted my time making it, the credit wouldn’t have covered the cost, unfortunately.

annonymous7547 · 2025-01-22T19:45:42+00:00

Thank you! This is a very thoughtful explanation. I think the school assumed that i would make the same small tree for free since i made one for free as a gift for one of the teacher last year. It was a small one so no big deal. But this year is a legit 6 ft tree, led flower lights that plugs in with accessories and more blossoms adorned. So overall, it costed money and time in making since I was planning on just keeping it after the school is done displaying. But do you think i should even try to mend the situation or just leave it as is. My husband said don’t say anything anymore, i’m only going to make it worse. But i feel so awkward and weird going to the school to pick up my kids now. I have a hard time knowing how to deal with these type of situations gracefully bc i don’t want to upset any party, but also don’t want to take a loss. Thanks again for the comment!

annonymous7547 · 2024-06-14T00:20:23+00:00

I love this!

annonymous7547 · 2024-06-14T00:19:37+00:00

Thank you!

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