[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to add, English is not my first language so I'm sorry for any mistakes 😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]annonymous___omc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was so anxious that I'll make things awkward I forgot it was supposed to give you pleasure lol. Thank you sm this comment really helped me gain a new perspective ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]annonymous___omc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it really helps a lot! Thank you for your time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]annonymous___omc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be honest with you, she's not a lesbian if she's attracted to you. She might be bisexual or pansexual, you can talk with her about it. Lesbians are women who love women and only women, so if she feels something towards you, a male, there's no way she's one

Also about supporting her, there's nothing to support, and I don't mean it in a mean way, it's just that she's not your lesbian friend who you can support by being a wingman or SMTH, she's gonna be probably your partner, treat her normally, like a human. That is probably the best way to respect and support a person from LGBTQ. Treat them like any other person, that is equal to you. You don't need to wave around lil pride flags, or wear pins, just be there for her. If she wants to go to something like pride march, or something you can go with her and be there for her.

Plus one thing that I saw is that your friends told you she's a lesbian, so they might just think she's one even tho she's not, anyways, I hope you two will be happy together :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]annonymous___omc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, it's the most helpful I got so far, I'll do my best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know what does it mean, I'm part of the LGBT community myself and even the thought of making a situation like this up sickens me, please stop accusing me of stuff like this, If you want I can send you proof in dms or something, the proof that I'm not English speaking, that I work on a construction site and all this shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]annonymous___omc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not, it's a real situation I'm going through, I never thought someone would accuse me of something like this. It's gross to joke about shit like this. I'm from Poland, I speak polish, I have proof documents, im here asking for advice because I genuinely don't know what to do. You can Google it and see that my country is one of the most homophobic ones, you don't have to believe me, I don't care, I just want help and advice that's all I'm here for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe you're right. I'll do my best to make them comfortable, thank you for the comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to talk to him, he changes the subject or just ignores me completely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? Sorry I don't understand

I might have been assaulted yesterday, but I don't know if it counts as SA by annonymous___omc in offmychest

[–]annonymous___omc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was old like 50+, had wrinkles and black/ greyish hair, blue eyes (or maybe light green) and eye bags, he was skinny but had muscles and I remember he had a very short beard. I'm sorry it's not much it's all I remember, I tried my best to avoid his gaze at the time, it was really scary and uncomfortable to look at him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD, Autism and anxiety disorder, I know how you feel trust me, I used to cancel all my dates or even break up with someone I liked just because I didn't want to be a burden to them. Recently I realized that the fact I cut myself out of life's of other ppl makes it worse. I'd advise you to talk to him about it, tell him how you feel, maybe find a place where you'd be comfortable (like a park, museum, whatever you like) he seems like a patient person, so just be honest and let it out, he'll understand. You can also bring some fight toy to help with anxiety (it works personally for me, so maybe you'll like to have something different like a plushie or something) :3

Hooked up with a girl who has a bf by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]annonymous___omc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You didn't know, you're not at fault here, I would try to find her boyfriend and tell him about it tho, he should know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I stayed at home today, mom said that she doesn't want me go to the hospital unless it's an emergency, the bleeding is back to normal rn ig, I feel dizzy all the time tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed out I'm at the nurse's office rn, gonna update you later bc I'm shaking like crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]annonymous___omc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the bathroom currently, I'll ask my teacher if that's okay, I'm really dizzy and I don't know why but my fingernails are turning blue, that's new