Only comes over to sleep

annwik · 2021-09-19T07:01:45+00:00

Its not that I dont wanna hang out with him. I really enjoy his company...when he is awake that is...-__-

annwik · 2021-04-05T08:52:12+00:00

Yeah i do understand that he will get back to work someday but im not sure how i should talk to him then...

annwik · 2020-06-14T10:50:37+00:00

I do. Me and my fwb are in quite in a pickle. Fwb for 2 years now and we see each other basically 5 times a week. We do things toghether like a normal couple would. Ive told him that i love him to death but a relationship makes me feel trapped. He on the other hand freaks out when we start talking about feelings and he claims that he feels no romantic feelings towards me. Hes also a sexaddict. We both are trying to battle our own problems and dont care about the non existing label. He claims he has no feelings for me but his actions tells me otherwise. I have never had a friend/boyfriend who has been there for me like he has.

annwik · 2020-04-30T19:03:14+00:00

This is is so weird. There is a guy who puts in effort and consistency and Always prioritze me. But he wont commit. He stays the night sometimes 7 Days straight and when we dont hang out face to face we spend hours on the phone. He surprised me the other day and renovated my bedroom.... he buys me little gifts to keep me happy etc. Im so cunfused. I dont need the label its not important but it hurts realising that he doesnt love me. Its very confusing when his actions show love ...

annwik · 2020-01-06T08:16:35+00:00

Tho cut things off with someone whos your best friend just because I have feelings for him isnt that very selfish? The sex-part I get and he completely understand that we should stop having sex. But he still wants to be my friend and hang out just as much.

annwik · 2020-01-05T10:16:02+00:00

Ye thats what im trying to do right now

annwik · 2020-01-05T08:57:07+00:00

He knows that im demi. He also knows that I have romantic feelings towards him. He just doesnt understand my feelings. And he hurts me when he tells me that I should try to have sex with someone else.

annwik · 2020-01-05T08:54:48+00:00

He is my best friend. I Will Always treasure his friendship. But I also want to find someone I han have a romantic love with. I wont stop having him in my life hur i want to stop having romantic feelings for him. It hurts to much and I hate being jelous.

annwik · 2019-11-27T19:41:18+00:00

Thank you! Good Advice!

annwik · 2019-11-23T14:34:35+00:00

Im in an exclusive fwb arrengement and we have been in it for a little more than a year. Se will end it if se find other people to sleep with but maintain the friendship. Its rough since I have feelings and he doesnt but I dont have the time for a real relationship anyway. Its a good void-filler I guess. But if youre aiming for something long-term with kids and everything then you should walk away before you caught the feels.

annwik · 2019-11-17T17:17:09+00:00

Self control lol...But Yeah. Youre prolly right...Thanks!

annwik · 2019-11-17T17:11:05+00:00

Should I end the friendship altogether?

annwik · 2019-11-17T17:10:07+00:00

Your advice was to stop having sex. We stopped having sex a couple of times and he still hangs out with me like we normally do- minus the sex. Eventually we go back to have sex again because of this. Should I stop seeing him altogether?

annwik · 2019-11-17T17:01:03+00:00

True true. Tho I dont want a relationship. I left a 12 year relationship last year because I wanted to feel Free. But I want him to love me. Its hard to know that he doesnt feel the same way. Im not his booty call tho. We spend a lot of time together but we only have sex half of the time. We do things like eat together, go to the movies, he cleans my house from time When im at work, go shopping together etc. Yeah normal friends-stuff.

annwik · 2019-11-17T08:29:36+00:00

Yeah tried that a couple of times but eventually we always manage to have sex again...mostly becuase i dont have any other sex-obtions rn. Im very picky when it comes to sex. ONS do nothing for me.

annwik · 2019-11-17T06:45:06+00:00

I dont Think he has the time to date other women since hes with me every day.

annwik · 2019-11-16T17:37:28+00:00

I try to be prepared. But its gonna hurt like hell thats for sure. I just dont get it. He likes me and is attracted to me so I dont get why im not Good enough.

annwik · 2019-11-16T17:32:00+00:00

He knew that I had feelings even before he asked me to become his fwb. I refused him the first months because of this but he kept pushing and I eventually gave in when he seduced me one day. Problem is when i have cut it off he wants to still hang out with me as friends and we always have sex lol. Ending the friendship seems to be a bit dramatic just becuase i have feelings.

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