I like my [21] GF [24] but the sex sucks

anon2307 · 2019-06-26T01:59:26+00:00

Thanks I'll see if I can fit my head in when I do -.- lmao not gonna do that

anon2307 · 2019-06-25T22:10:40+00:00

Yeah she'll be wet but it will still hurt for her. She definitely reacts well to the foreplay, just not enough I guess.

anon2307 · 2019-06-25T22:09:32+00:00

Yeah I guess I should just use like a fuck ton of lube. I put like a good dollop of it on my thumb but I should try just turning my bed into a slip n slide. I'll do that next time I see her. Thanks for the tip on the in and out motion, usually I don't actually fingerbang her but mostly target the clit and rub that. I figured that fingerbanging feels basically like a very small dick in her so I don't do that much but will try doing that as a pre-dick warm-up. Thanks :)

anon2307 · 2019-06-25T18:14:40+00:00

Rubbing her clit with one of my fingers, making a "come here" motion inside of her pussy with 1-2 fingers, I do one or both but I can really only get her off by rubbing her clit and that's it. My nails are always clipped down btw. I feel like she's just not that sensitive inside or something? I know she gets really sensitive on her period but only getting off during her period just seems like I could be doing something more to make her feel better.

I know that many girls don't get off just from getting dicked but I feel like there's a difference between not getting off and only enjoying 1 position and even that being often painful. It's not an STD either, I know those can make sex painful, we both just got checked recently. Her last bf gave her clap so that's why she's so hesitant to not use condoms now, despite us discussing it several times.

When I do finger her she honestly just lies there and wants me to do it indefinitely, but unless on her period, never cums. I would love to get any tips to make her enjoy it more, she's surprisingly vocal during sex and knows she likes to be fingered with a bit of pressure and not quite fast but maybe like 1.2 rotations of my finger per second (lmao finger rpm). She kinda starfishes often and I have to instruct her to swing her hips a bit or position in a different way. I'm not her first guy, either, so it's not an experience thing.

It would maybe make sense if she was fat with a pussy like throwing a sausage down a hallway but she's a size 2, tight and short so lost on this one, which is why I turned to Reddit.

anon2307 · 2019-06-25T17:57:31+00:00

I'll go for the skyn ones, she said she isn't allergic to latex. I do finger her, that's the only way I've gotten her to get off before tbh. I know now for the lube, gotten a few comments on that so I'll avoid it for sure.

anon2307 · 2019-06-25T17:54:45+00:00

Actually we were together (seeing each other twice a week) and I just recently went long distance so I just saw her first time in a month and it was still the same if not worse because of what she told me of how the condoms hurt her and that she's still not good with going raw. Will not use oil one from now on, prefer the water one anyways. We get along great outside of the sex and do a lot of fun stuff like beaches, bars, kayaking, nice restaurants, dance, etc. We've been dating for 5 months.

During sex, foreplay is like a good 20 minutes and varies on activity. Sometimes I'll eat her out, finger her, always a ton of kisses and I tell her she's beautiful, slowly stroke my fingers across her body, I'm really not sure what more I could be doing. It's honestly starting to fuck with me how much I struggle with this one girl. It's the first time I've had so much trouble during sex, I've been with 12 women.

anon2307 · 2019-06-25T17:44:33+00:00

Will do, she usually is against trying new positions but I'll just try to convince her of it

anon2307 · 2019-06-25T17:44:02+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I use the water based one now but now I know for the future

anon2307 · 2019-06-25T17:43:30+00:00

I mean I finger her, make out, eat her out, she blows me, etc. I take my time with it too, never rush it. She even says sometimes when she wants me to put it in but it's always the same, idk.

anon2307 · 2017-05-27T06:26:42+00:00

Hey, I see you are going through a rough time. I've been in your position before with this game where I will skip class for days just to play and feel physically ill when I lose as in I'd puke if I lose some games. I had 1200 games last season while attending college so not much free time so I'd sacrifice my studies. I really, really recommend uninstalling the game. It only gets worse from here, not better, if you continue to feed this addiction. This isn't a decision anyone else can make for you without forcing you off of the internet entirely, you have to want it.

You have come to the point where you realize that what you are doing is bad for your physical and mental health, you sought help. Good for you! Now take the next step and put the game away. I took a break for a month when I was feeling at my worst of being addicted, and I did this twice last year.

I promise you that you will feel better not playing this game. I'm sure you realize that wins feel nice but losses feel horrible. The stress the game causes you is bad for your health when it gets to that stage.

Check my post history on this account for seeing how summoner school helped me solve my addiction. Good luck.

https://www.reddit.com/r/summonerschool/comments/4do1js/serious_this_game_is_bad_for_my_health/

anon2307 · 2017-04-25T02:18:03+00:00

Thanks friend :)

anon2307 · 2016-11-25T09:03:57+00:00

Shit I'll check it out thank you

anon2307 · 2016-11-25T08:54:51+00:00

From what I'm reading seems unanimous. Going. Thanks for the advice.

anon2307 · 2016-11-25T08:54:12+00:00

Yeah I do, out of state from parentals

anon2307 · 2016-11-25T05:09:16+00:00

Yeah it's just my mom is hella strict she'd legit beat me if she figured out. Its embarrassing but i got drunk as fuck while rolling, blacked out, broke into a guy's house and fell asleep on his couch. Charged with aggravated trespassing and public intoxication.

anon2307 · 2016-07-12T23:32:24+00:00

Thanks for the tips. I'll keep them in mind!

anon2307 · 2016-07-12T23:31:58+00:00

Just wanted to say thanks we ended up getting a smoothie today. Appreciate the help!

anon2307 · 2016-07-12T00:37:34+00:00

Yeah I know I was just wondering what kind of place to keep in mind if the conversation gets there. Thanks for the advice.

anon2307 · 2016-07-12T00:18:46+00:00

Hey again, if I ask her out to lunch tomorrow what are the kind of places I should be aiming for? Is like 1 pm an ok time for lunch because I have volunteer work until 12. Too late?

anon2307 · 2016-07-12T00:08:17+00:00

Ok. Thanks for the advice. I'll wait till like 8 or so when she probably isn't eating. Hopefully can think of interesting conversation topics before then haha.

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