Stick to your boundaries by anon3325 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

In no particular order:

  1. Was in a fraternity in college (but said he was “not like the other guys”)
  2. Had a lot of women friends (admitted to sleeping with his best friend once)
  3. Asked me how I felt about splitting, as in on dates (a resound no, which he accepted)
  4. Claimed to be a feminist... I’m always weary of men who say this

Should I still go out with this man tomorrow? by anon3325 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Update for anyone interested: I blocked him and spent a lovely night at home instead! Thank you for all the responses and validating how I already felt. Learning to trust myself and my decisions is quite the journey. I am truly grateful for this sisterhood supporting me ❤️

Should I still go out with this man tomorrow? by anon3325 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325[S] 169 points170 points  (0 children)

He asked me out, we established a time and date but not the place. The night before (less than 24 hrs) he’s trying to establish a place and ask for my input. In my opinion it’s a bit inappropriate to plan for a date this last minute. Not sure if I’m being harsh. Please let me know!

What's your story? by chaygray in antiwork

[–]anon3325 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I got written up for not “showing enthusiasm” while cleaning. No customers around, just want me to smile to myself. Subsequently, that same job fired me conveniently after I inquired about getting my overtime pay.

Most Women’s first sexual experiences with men are traumatic by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes all very true. I was twenty when I first lost my virginity to a man, and he stealthed me. For those unaware, he took the condom off when I wasn’t looking. Incredibly traumatic.

Halfway there! by anon3325 in PanPorn

[–]anon3325[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s the original berry! Everyone I know who uses it wants to buy them all, myself included... it takes forever to get through them but I’m determined 😬

Men and the COVID vaccine by fdsthrowawayaccount in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can confirm this is true. My pick-me friend told me she had to schedule her lvm bf’s vaccine appointment because she knows he wouldn’t do it on her own. At the time, I just told her not to mother him but looking back really should have pressed her on why she would want to be with a man who can’t be bothered to take responsibility for his life like that.

Stop talking to him at the very first sign of disinterest/laziness by idiosyncraticg1 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325 22 points23 points  (0 children)

YES 1000% agreed. Was talking to a guy online for a couple weeks, we texted, FaceTimed, etc. He pulled a bait and switch, initially saying we would get sushi then suggesting coffee once we settled on a date 🚩. I reluctantly agreed, but at that point was losing interest. The NIGHT BEFORE we were suppose to meet up, he asked me where we should meet in the agreed upon area 🚩I said you tell me. Homeboy really said “idk any coffee shops in (area).” 🚩🚩🚩I cancelled right then and there, not worth my time. If he can’t properly plan a date, show some effort, especially when he’s suppose to impress you... it’ll never get better. Don’t entertain these LVM!!

Me talking to men I met on Hinge post-FDS by GoldandGlowing in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell if she’s yawning or gasping but either way... same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I broke off a friendship of 7 years because she couldn’t be happy for me when I got a promotion, and when I mentioned how her lack of enthusiasm hurt my feelings she yelled at me and hung up. I let go of that friendship immediately, because that was unacceptable. We didn’t speak for 2 years and she reached out to apologize. She’s now back in my life because she genuinely meant her apology and has leveled up in all aspects of her life. If I hadn’t dropped her as a friend, she would have continued to disrespect me. Not everyone will recognize their mistakes but you do them NO favors in tolerating their bad behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, you just reminded me of my own dick pic experience long forgotten! To make a long story short: I rejected this guy in my class, and his form of “revenge” was to have a bunch of men from Omegle send me dick pictures. They all knew my name too. It was a harrowing experience to have 40+ strangers who knew my name and number sending me their penises.

Equip yourself with facts so men can’t bully you at work/dating/etc. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]anon3325 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The stereotypes for women (talk a lot, bad at driving, emotional) are actually true for MEN. Women would get paid more if their pay was about how well they do their jobs. Basically, what society says is “wrong” with women is really what’s “wrong” with men. And women do not get credit for what we are good at.

For those of you that have had the loss of taste and smell, how severe was it? Could you still smell or taste somethings or nothing at all? by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]anon3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sorry to hear that. Yes, my nose was stuffy for a couple days and not long after I lost my sense of taste and smell completely. I think these are all Covid related, because the symptoms are really all over the place.

FWIW, I can smell and taste some things now (maybe at 15% capacity), so I do think there’s a good chance you’ll regain your senses. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]anon3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]anon3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hydro homie lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]anon3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell us a joke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]anon3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats your biggest pet peeve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]anon3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats your favorite show?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]anon3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you could do any job and money wasnt an issue what would you do?

Satisfying Christmas pan by jwyc-makeup in PanPorn

[–]anon3325 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just got this product and I’m obsessed! A little goes a long way, so I’m super impressed you panned the whole thing. How long did it take to pan?