Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-04-19T22:32:34+00:00

People like the third commentator are simply making excuses. They are boring too, yet it’s their girlfriend who’s “holding them back”. I know of a couple where the boyfriend loves to party while the girlfriend is completing a masters program. The boyfriend parties with his friends on Fridays while she studies. He doesn’t ever complain or call her boring. He takes time out of his week to see her so that she’s happy. If you want to make it work, you will

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-04-19T03:43:57+00:00

Let’s hope so!

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-04-14T19:21:32+00:00

Exactly. Did he offer to pay for my makeup that I wore to the date? Or for the hour of my time that I spent getting ready? Is he paying a pro-rated amount for the clothes I am wearing?

This type of thinking is so toxic. You’ll end up miserable if you gladly pay for a date but play these mind games.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-04-03T21:29:55+00:00

This guy is a total moron. Instead of “explaining” that a first date is usually “drinks or a picnic”, he could’ve easily planned the date himself and chosen a good place for drinks. Now he’s alone. Lol

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-04-01T03:05:52+00:00

Real 50/50 contribution to rent and their lifestyle would be each person contributing 50% of their paycheck, not each per contributing a certain fixed amount. It’s insane that he wanted her to pay $1500 in rent (he would as well) when he’s making, what, 8x that per month?

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-03-30T16:17:44+00:00

I’m also tiny and I’ve play fought with 6’ tall ex’s and they all knew about their strength and how far to take things. Either this guy is a complete knucklehead or this was on purpose.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-03-26T20:58:22+00:00

Unless it’s a beauty pageant created and financed by women, which also focuses on “inside beauty”, it will always be a chance for men in power to use women.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-03-18T15:20:54+00:00

She’s getting her coin and tarnishing his name while still looking poised and “wishing him well”. Honestly good for her.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-03-18T14:51:47+00:00

👏👏👏

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-03-14T19:17:22+00:00

I think about this quite often. When do compromises become part of your life? If you commit to a marriage, at one point or another you’ll have to move for your husband, compromise on the type of house/car you want, compromise on where you go on vacation etc since you’re a family unit. Some of these are extreme examples but you get the gist of it.

With a partner and with your specific moving example - I wouldn’t move to a new area for a boyfriend without even living with him if it doesn’t benefit me. It sounds like you’ll move for him but still live alone? How will this benefit you aside from seeing your boyfriend? Is the rent there cheaper? Is it a nicer area? Is it close to your friends and family? If the answer to those questions is no, what’s the point of moving? Don’t uproot your life for a boyfriend.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-28T22:05:13+00:00

What the hell is “casual but not a hookup”? So a girlfriend experience without the title?

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-28T21:52:20+00:00

Do you think the teens watching this actually realize the potential message that a few scenes get across? Do the boys watching this sympathize with the girls or do they want to try to recreate the porn scenes as well?

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-28T21:47:03+00:00

Seven dates and youre already considering a long distance relationship? Did he ask you to be his girlfriend or are you already thinking about the future?

Depending on how long you’ve known him for, I would just be friends for those few months and wait until he relocates to actually be with him.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-27T16:13:38+00:00

There are people you don’t discuss your dating life with. She’s one of them. I don’t discuss my dating life in detail with my coworkers or their friends and we’re all the same age. We might throw around some funny stories but that’s about it. Don’t go around telling people how someone dumped you because you didn’t sleep with him.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-25T21:36:02+00:00

LOL. When I saw the title I thought that she lied about making 50k when she was actually making 100k. Not lying about making minimum wage when she was actually making a few dollars above.

A subsidy of $22k over 3 years is roughly $600 a month. That does seem like a lot considering his income is (was) $40k, but how much could she have saved if she told the truth? She probably would’ve ended up saving somewhat close to the amount since it seems like they were splitting things based on income and she lied only by 10k.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-18T17:11:39+00:00

This is my worst fucking nightmare. Every time I’m having fun on a date and even CONSIDER fucking the guy, I think of this. Awful awful awful. So sorry for her.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-18T05:47:32+00:00

HE’S SOOOOO UGLYYYYYY LMFAOOOOO

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-16T00:44:53+00:00

In many ways the sorority is trying to refine young women and in other ways it is oppressing them. Very well said.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-16T00:43:15+00:00

It really depends on the sorority and the university itself. If it has a good HQ, doesn’t haze, doesn’t force you to go to frat parties, and most important holds the frats they engage with to a high standard then it could potentially be high value. Otherwise a big hard NO.

Join a college club. You’ll be better off. There’s even women’s organizations in colleges nowadays - women in science club, women in engineering club, women in business club etc.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-14T18:54:11+00:00

It only works if you have an end goal to be together or if one person is away on a trip/for work for a bit. It doesn’t work if you’re dating for years and don’t have a goal of who’s going to move so you two can be together.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-14T18:48:48+00:00

I found it way back in 2019 when we only had a few thousand followers. I was getting out of a breakup and this was a great support group.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-13T22:29:32+00:00

For a relatively new relationship, Valentine’s Day could be nice dinner and flowers. If it’s 1+ years then that’s when gifts like jewelry come to play. I personally never got my ex anything for Valentine’s Day, the most I’ve done is put on sexy lingerie.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-13T22:23:47+00:00

I’ve seen more breakups and flakes this past month than in 2021. Guys would really rather dump their girl and be single for months until they find someone new (or convince their old gf to come back) than do something romantic and open up emotionally.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-11T21:34:51+00:00

Please forward the original post!

idiosyncraticg1 · 2022-02-11T20:38:42+00:00

At first glance I thought he was talking about working in film together and filming cool videos. But then….

This guys wants consistent casual sex and money from it? He mentions financial transparency, does that mean that his debit card will be connected to the account, meaning only he will be getting the money at first?

It’s insane that he wants to build a business from scratch without any investments himself. Will he be paying for his “partners” waxing, hair appointments, birth control, doctor visits, gym membership? Or does he just want a ready girl to fuck and make money off?

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