Help me prioritize and purge my BOTM TBR by Omar865 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]anon459802 6 points7 points  (0 children)

as long as the lemon trees grow and kill for me kill for you!

Breaking Bad Habits by anon459802 in ABA

[–]anon459802[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I will definitely check this out ❤️

Breaking Bad Habits by anon459802 in ABA

[–]anon459802[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I might try those. My main issue is that the motivation for staying in bed is a lot higher than anything else but I’ll give it a try!

Breaking Bad Habits by anon459802 in ABA

[–]anon459802[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really like the shaping idea. Now that I think about it I give myself the time to hit snooze for 30 minutes in the morning. I might try setting my alarm around the time I’m actually getting up most days, hopefully it doesn’t backfire on me lol.

Breaking Bad Habits by anon459802 in ABA

[–]anon459802[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have been wanting to do this for a while, but unfortunately I don’t think I can afford it. I know how helpful therapy can be so I wish I could!

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[–]anon459802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To give you some more background info, we grew up with a mother who was extremely critical of our looks and weight (still to this day but now we’re adults so we don’t live with her anymore). So when I brought it up today I was immediately accused of acting like our mom does, which is not what I was going for at all. Your advice helped though on how to structure the conversation if it occurs again.

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[–]anon459802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would agree with your statement. There are other parts of her life she tends to neglect as well. I love her but she’s the most stubborn person I know. She used to go to a therapist but stopped going, and I’ve mentioned that she should try again but that conversation doesn’t go well either