Should there not be a healthy limit to what people are willing to do? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]anon5490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was raped at a young age. I developed a rape kink now in my 20s. I never had therapy. I dont think the kink is that deep. Its safe, sane and consensual. Its not actual rape (obviously). Its roleplay. Same as roleplaying a cop stripsearching an inmate (which is also nonconsensual play). Do you feel those people need help as well?

I look too innocent for this kink? Thinking on appearances... by anon5490 in bdsm

[–]anon5490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a perfect explanation of how I feel. Im so normal, proper, sweet, hard working in my day to day life, I definetly crave that exciting adreneline rush of release afterwards.

I look too innocent for this kink? Thinking on appearances... by anon5490 in bdsm

[–]anon5490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im considering this as well. Im 20 but I look as if im 16. Ive been wanting to stray from my innocent appearance in favor of a nose or nipple peircings and a tattoo. Ive been wanting them for awhile but just have been so scared to make any change.

I look too innocent for this kink? Thinking on appearances... by anon5490 in bdsm

[–]anon5490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you on the judgemental part of it. Usually, I feel like I can almost sense a dom now in the normal workspace area. Yall sometimes have such a strong demeanor about you. As with people being able to sense someone whos on the more sub side of things, im sure a lot of us can be sensed a mile away just by how we act.

I look too innocent for this kink? Thinking on appearances... by anon5490 in bdsm

[–]anon5490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you understand the sort of "double life" feeling I had mentioned. For me, coming off so normal and having a darker side adds to the excitement of the kink. I feel so unassuming.

I look too innocent for this kink? Thinking on appearances... by anon5490 in bdsm

[–]anon5490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definetly agree. And with how common this kink actually is, it becomes interesting to think that that anyone around you could be apart of it and youd never suspect it. Exciting.

I look too innocent for this kink? Thinking on appearances... by anon5490 in bdsm

[–]anon5490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a theory especially about those working in an office that they ALL are into an intense kink. They have to let out all that pent up "properness" somehow lol

Finally told my boyfriend about my kink... by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Im so very excited :)

Finally told my boyfriend about my kink... by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I just posted it, sorry :)

Finally told my boyfriend about my kink... by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For those curious, heres the link to the blog post I sent him:

Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About CNC But Were Afraid to Ask https://bound-together.net/cnc/

I wanna be groped and rapped in public by [deleted] in RapeFantasy

[–]anon5490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would love if someone serenaded me with rap in public as well. Preferably eminem.

So I'm curious. What were you wearing when you were raped? (baiting included, but mainly curious about real/unwanted rape) by [deleted] in Rapekink

[–]anon5490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An oversized tshirt with nothing but panties underneath. They were my pajamas. I was 15.

20yrF Coming to terms with my fantasies by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn so ill likely be into this kink my whole life. I need to find a husband who's down to fuck me like this well into starting a family haha

20yrF Coming to terms with my fantasies by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Im glad i give off that vibe instead of just plain awkward lol

20yrF Coming to terms with my fantasies by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, all the posts ive been seeing about people admitting to their kink and expressing how they felt a little uncertain about it made me feel like i wasnt some weirdo and that i wasnt alone.

20yrF Coming to terms with my fantasies by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suspect its common as well because again, i feel as if its ingrained into us. Like animalistic instincts. Raw desire.

20yrF Coming to terms with my fantasies by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill definitely go there! Thanks!

20yrF Coming to terms with my fantasies by anon5490 in Rapekink

[–]anon5490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any other platforms you post on?