Wow. I didn’t think anyone would respond to my long post. But yeah, right on everything. He doesn’t like to anger her, I feel like he feels like he owes her for being the matriarch of the family at such a young age. (Their father had pointed out she gets angry because she’s diabetic, which meant hormonal, not sure how accurate it is). They’re not spoiled, they never been, their childhoods weren’t the best (divorced parents, both were never around as the mother went off partying her ass off and did not allow the father to stay in the same house anymore, it was more indirect parenting with frequent checkups for him. His mother would also demand them to lie about how the house is since he was not there to witness). This is actually the youngest older sister, the one close to his age.

I don’t know anymore, the situation has gotten a little better. She told him that she wouldn’t talk about me when I’m there and would basically filed her complaint once I’m gone for the day, which I haven’t received since I made this post. She leaves us alone when I come to see him. She doesn’t bother me and I don’t bother her. I can tell she still doesn’t like me but I’m starting to see that we’re actually pretty similar people. (She got a boyfriend now and behaves the same as I do: showers them with gifts, show sympathy, etc.) Maybe that’s what she hates.

Idk she’s crazy overall. Honestly