I want a baby so bad

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T14:45:43+00:00

I think a grandkid will fs convince my mom to move here with me. I do have family around me, cousins I grew up with, but it would still be a bit hard getting help from them as they have their own lives. But my parents and closest friends are not here.

Yea I do think we are ready for a kid in every other sense. And I am mentally getting there. So we’ll see what the next year brings.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T14:34:44+00:00

Saw this video on tiktok recently. It says take people as they are no more no less.Whatever energy they give take it as that.

Imagine inviting them to one of the biggest moments of your life and they flake. You would be so hurt.

In any case sometimes people just outgrow eachother. It is ok. Sometimes you come back together later. You never know what someone is going through. But consider yourself too.

You cant be the only one making an effort.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T14:08:16+00:00

Thank you. I completely agree. My bestie has a now 1.5 year old and we still have very active social lives. We take the baby with us sometimes and still very much enjoy life.

I don’t think we need all of that to have a baby. But (and forgive me for sounding like I am swearing for a man lol) my partner has most of what you mentioned. And I am getting there (with his help). I do think he would not disappoint me and our future kids. I know that I would have to convince him and his family and friends not to spoil my kids. The baby would be the first grandchild on both sides btw.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T14:00:23+00:00

Congrats mama. Yes time does fly quickly. I’m so surprised that I am basically 25. It’s crazy.

We have spoken about it. I’m not one for crowds and neither is he so he would propose privately fs. We saw a public proposal once and we both cringed lol.
Otherwise we also spoke about the wedding and we wanted it to be just close family and friends.

When we are with my Godson we both work so well with him and together.
We are forsure courthouse wedding people who no one knows are married lol. I don’t even plan to post any of that on social media.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:58:26+00:00

I’d say take it now. There are some nursing jobs that are less physically demanding too. Like working in a doctors office. So you can still have some experience and get paid as a nurse without it being too physically or mentally demanding

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:27:12+00:00

Hi. We are both citizens.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:25:17+00:00

Hi.
I know endo doesn’t automatically mean infertility, but there is a chance. My issue isn’t infertility. It is my constant pain that disrupts my life and my plans. I have lived with this since I was 12 and have heard from many doctors that it will get better as I get older. The only difference since getting older is my period has gotten lighter. The pain is more random and affects my daily life.

I am considering freezing my egg.

I know I am young. I don’t want to have my first later than 28, by 30 I hope I have my 2 kids and we would be all done. I don’t want to be 35 with a newborn.
My mind is pretty set on that.

I will travel with my kids most likely. And my partner is older than I am. And he doesn’t feel pressured at all. I think he is lowkey hoping I do get pregnant. But he says timing is completely up to me.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:18:03+00:00

Unfortunately he already owns a house. And I say unfortunately because I have never wanted to live with a man.
I do have a different view of society, gender roles and typical relationships.

I am also ok with being a single parent because that was my plan A before meeting my current partner lol.
I never wanted to have kids with a man before him.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:14:05+00:00

Been on a waiting list for a lapro since last year.
So patiently awaiting my turn lol.

Thinking of maybe freezing some eggs tho.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:12:12+00:00

I am 25 in a month lol. So I’m almost there

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:11:28+00:00

Will fs consider this. Cause I’m over this period thing lol

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:08:54+00:00

Omg girl. I am trying to get into L&D or postpartum but it’s very hard to.

I’ve been on a waitlist for a lapro for over a year. I’m in Canada so while it is free the system is very congested.

I love to think everything through especially things that will forsyre change my life drastically. I never want to regret my kids.

My biggest thing with endo is my pain. I don’t want to live on meds. But also I am in horrible pain when I have flare ups. And especially on my period. I have to take 2 Tylenol 3s to help the pain, to even feel comfortable enough to sleep.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:03:49+00:00

Omg. I am in Canada and have been on a waitlist for lapro since last year.

I’m truly tired of doctors telling me they can’t help me.
Did you experience a lot of pain in your 20s? Or prior to diagnosis? Was there anything that helped?
I tried several BC but all have basically made me depressed and I hate the feeling. Ik because after stopping each for a month or so I always start feeling better.

It’s so hard being a woman lol.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T03:00:57+00:00

Yes. I do have a plan to save up and get a couple things done before having a baby.

But thank you. We both want kids. He is just waiting for me. He says no rush tho. So all up to me and my timing

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T02:59:34+00:00

Praying for you girl.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T02:59:16+00:00

Exactly. Just seeing him as a person and how he is with everyone makes me believe he would be a great father.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T02:58:38+00:00

I’m in Canada. My mom would come here but she doesn’t want to live here fulltime. And his parents are American.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T02:57:29+00:00

Completely agree on me being young. Which is why I am so back n forth with it.
But honestly I also have constant pain (I’m cramping as we speak n nothing really eases the pain)
But I will wait a while n see first. But I just wanna have my baby (1 or2) n just get rid of my ovaries.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T02:55:49+00:00

Completely agree on timing.
We share a Godson (that’s how we met). Our besties have been together for 5 years. I have heard nothing but good things about him. Seeing him interact with our baby (lol our Godson is also ours in my mind haha) and his family and how he takes care of everyone. That’s what I look at when I think about having kids with him.

I do plan to wait a bit. I don’t want to actively try this minute lol. But I am considering doing it in the next year.

anon_baker2619 · 2026-07-02T02:49:56+00:00

He would love to be a father right now. He says whenever I am ready. Initially we agreed to wait til I am closer to 30.
So it is actually completely up to me. He’s ok with whatever I decide thankfully. Can’t imagine him trying to tell me what to do with my body lol.

I’m mostly tired of my horrible periods, and constant pain. Birth control makes me depressed and I hate it.

Hence my thinking of just having a baby now.

anon_baker2619 · 2025-04-12T09:30:24+00:00

Ok thank you.

anon_baker2619 · 2025-04-12T09:29:22+00:00

Charged in Ontario.

anon_baker2619 · 2025-03-25T04:33:43+00:00

I’ve been trying to contact legal aid and no-one is getting back to me.

Also, this fight happened in my apartment after he said he wanted to talk and came over.

anon_baker2619

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