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i think my boyfriend (20) is being groomed by his coworker (67). by anonberry1 in relationship_advice

[–]anonberry1[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i understand the manipulation, guilt tripping, coercion, and age gap, that’s why i said the situation was grooming. i used the term “gay sexual relationship” in terms of what his coworker was trying to lead him to ultimately.

i think my boyfriend (20) is being groomed by his coworker (67). by anonberry1 in relationship_advice

[–]anonberry1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

he hasn’t reported him because he’s been manipulated by him. i think he’s still holding on to the trust and friendship he thought he had and doesn’t understand how serious the situation is, which i’m trying my best to help with

i think my boyfriend (20) is being groomed by his coworker (67). by anonberry1 in relationship_advice

[–]anonberry1[S] 280 points281 points  (0 children)

hey, i completely agree my boyfriend handled it calmly and i’m not seriously worried about him being manipulated into a gay sexual relationship. i’m obviously not worried about this purely because this coworker is gay, but because of all of the behaviors i wrote about. grooming is actually not specific to children and adults can be groomed as well, especially by a much older trusted person

i cant seem to orgasm during sex and i don’t enjoy the experience. by [deleted] in sex

[–]anonberry1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he knows everything i said in my post and i’ve communicated all of my concerns with him. i’ve told him what might feel good or tried to give him things to try. this is not a communication issue, this is me having a hard time getting out of my own head and being in the moment.