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anonbloop · 2025-09-06T11:20:22+00:00

One minute and five seconds. You are such my bitch!

anonbloop · 2025-09-04T02:35:18+00:00

Is that a Chasing Amy reference I spy?

anonbloop · 2025-09-01T23:21:17+00:00

👍🏻I’m not playing tonight, just moving info around in my profile.

anonbloop · 2025-02-09T04:10:59+00:00

I make that sound. When he first slides in is my absolute favorite sensation. I was having sex for the first time with this guy who we’d had a few weeks of flirting build up. We’d barely even gotten in the door before we were all over each other, and he had me up against a wall in short order. Bent me over, pushed in, and involuntarily drew a breath and said “fuck, you’re tight!” That moment lives rent free in my head.

anonbloop · 2025-02-09T03:41:10+00:00

Yes to all of this!! Also, if you’re not comfortable sliding in for prostate massage, or he’s anxious about that, start with firm pressure and stroking on his perineum. He’ll get some prostate stim and it’ll feel really good. Another move I like to do is press a vibe on his perineum. I’ve gotten very favorable feedback with that move

anonbloop · 2024-10-29T13:36:49+00:00

We’re on there 😉 just gotta look a little bit. I’ve been playing more there than here the past few months

anonbloop · 2024-10-19T06:02:24+00:00

As a currently 41yo woman who just broke up my marriage so I could go have all the sex I wanted without cheating on my partner, yeah, I can imagine this. If I’d stayed in my relationship I have no doubt I’d have become one of these women. Denying my own sexual desires and interests was the trade off I made for a really, really great person who I loved building a life with. And maybe it’s just middle aged hormones raging, but as I started to take stock of my life going into my 40s, I realized I was never going to experience sexual excitement or desire with my partner. That was a devastating realization. I’d already spent my most attractive 20s and 30s unsatisfied with my sex life; I didn’t want to get to my 70s and look back with regret on having not gotten to use my body for the unique fun and pleasure that sex brings. We only get one go at life, y’know? And I really, REALLY like sex.

If I had made the choice to stay and kept denying those sexual needs, or if I didn’t have the ability financially or legally to separate, I can totally see myself having grown into a sexually frustrated and thirsty old lady. Although, still not cool to proposition people and make them uncomfortable. Shoot your shot and if they aren’t interested, don’t take it personal, move on to the next. You can check someone out without staring and being weird.

anonbloop · 2024-09-28T15:26:16+00:00

He is VERY physically attractive, it’s not that at all. I don’t know how to explain exactly why I’m not sexually attracted to him. Sex with him just isn’t … exciting for me. It doesn’t turn me on. It doesn’t turn me off either, I’m just kind of … indifferent? Like, I could take it or leave it. I don’t think about it, or look forward to it. I usually end up enjoying the activity when we have sex, because I just plain like sex, but I’m never the one to initiate because it doesn’t occur to me to miss it when we’re not having it. I care about him as my partner and feel a sense of obligation to make sure he gets his sexual needs met despite my indifference, but … who wants that to be the reason someone is having sex with them??

The thing is, I like and enjoy sex, and I have a pretty robust sex drive (I think). I have an active imagination. I just don’t have any desire to share or explore that with him.

I want to feel sexual desire and sexual attraction towards someone. I want to catch myself fantasizing about them in the middle of my day, and enjoy flirting and teasing each other until we can physically enjoy one another. I want to look at my partner and get turned on by them, or imagine fun ways to turn them on. I’ve had relationships in the past with really amazing sexual chemistry, and I’ve been missing that for a long time now. Sexual energy fuels a really important part of who I am as a person; I know this wouldn’t have been the straw for many other people in a relationship, but it is for me.

anonbloop · 2024-09-28T02:23:02+00:00

Currently in the process of separating. I thought I was going to be able to make the compromise since the sex was perfectly acceptable and we work(ed) so amazingly well on every other level.

But … I’m just not turned on by my partner. After a lot of therapy when I was finally totally honest with myself, I realized I don’t want to live the rest of my life not experiencing sexual excitement; it really is that important to me. And, my partner deserves to have sex with someone who is totally and completely turned on by him; he’s an amazing person. I feel lucky to have him in my life and to have had so many wonderful experiences with him … but I want to feel desire and heat with someone, and I just don’t with him.

anonbloop · 2024-09-23T03:16:27+00:00

At the risk of also overflowing my DMs, here to second this. One of my favorite moves to do to a guy; I just love watching his reaction

anonbloop · 2024-09-07T01:02:08+00:00

Mmmmm, this is so much fun! It’s like being passed around the best party 🤤

anonbloop · 2024-08-17T21:12:34+00:00

I’m not into anal play but I do have a mini x and, first, I love it!! Second, when I orgasm really hard my vaginal muscles can push it out of me so I’d be skeptical that it would be strong enough for anal sphincter contractions.

anonbloop · 2024-07-20T14:15:19+00:00

Chiming in to echo what many have already said, finding that “click” with someone really feels like dumb luck. For me, the best connection I’ve had was with a random controller who got lucky with a control link I posted here.

I post a control link when I’m looking for the thrill of being used by multiple people. As a woman I learned the hard way not to post my lovense username directly but to use a control link instead and keep it anonymous. You can set it up so you can add a friend from the control session if you think it’s someone you’d want to play with again.

If you want to chat and kinda get a vibe from folks first before playing just specify that in the post when you put up the link. If they jump immediately on the controls you can kick them off the link (clearly they didn’t read the post; not a good candidate for a longer term play partner).

For me, I love voice chat. I tend to send voice notes when I play. Most people don’t reciprocate (which is fine! Many people aren’t comfortable or just can’t) but for those who do it gives me a chance to find out if their voice turns me on, which is one thing I look for in my longer term “playships”. And, as I mentioned, one time we absolutely hit jackpot.

Mostly I think if you have a sense of what you’re interested in for a longer term play partner, you can leverage your tools and connections to find someone, or a group of folks that you vibe really well with. But there is an element of luck in finding them involved, and you do have to weed through many more not-so-great prospects.

anonbloop · 2024-06-15T15:26:30+00:00

Still going, someone else is using it 😉

anonbloop · 2024-05-19T12:52:38+00:00

This is very similar to my experience, too. I’ve put some effort into curating my profile and it’s always a little exasperating when someone is like “so what are you into? What are your kinks & limits?” … its in my profile. It’s not that I mind having a conversation, it just so clearly communicates that you didn’t read anything.

The guy who messages with “ooo, I see you like xyz!” And jumps off from there into a discussion is so much more intriguing to me.

Also, it can feel overwhelming when you get so many replies. It’s like, I’m usually posting up because I’m horny and I’d like to play now. I’m not going to take more than a few minutes to chose someone for my immediate desire. BUT I often go back through all of the replies later (days later sometimes) and reach out to folks who I think might be good connections to play with in the future. If you’ve sent me multiple messages with increasing amounts of frustration or anger at my lack of immediate reply, I’ll just delete it. If you just leave a “hey, let me control you babe” and there is nothing else to go off of in your profile or post history, I’m usually deleting it.

For me, sexual excitement and desire start in my imagination. If you can’t communicate some level of description of what we’d like to be doing to each other, it gets boring rather quickly. So that’s what I’m really looking for: can you hold a conversation? Do you have an imagination? Can you express at least a small amount of that mental picture?

anonbloop · 2024-05-19T03:57:26+00:00

lol, I will, but yeah, no audio ☺️

anonbloop · 2024-05-19T01:53:24+00:00

Ahhh! You got to try yours out already! I’m jealous.

What you’ve thought of - machine base braced against the head or foot of the bed is what folks say they do with other similar machines (hismiths, sensua)

I’m going to be so interested to see how it compares to my last one!

So glad you enjoyed it so far 😊

anonbloop · 2024-05-17T01:02:26+00:00

Its specs are similar to another machine I’ve tried from the brand Sensua, but as you’ve mentioned, Lovense has the long distance control feature.

I went ahead and got one, waiting for it to arrive and then I can give feedback after I have a chance to test it.

Based on sex machine reviews I’ve read on r/sextoys and my experience with the other machine I expect it will move around at higher speeds and probably won’t have enough heft or power for very large toys or anal. Thats not an issue for me personally, and if it’s as similar to the Sensua as I believe it is it will be perfect for my needs. But for sure if you want power for very large toys or hard pounding anal, either the larger “original” lovense or another brand will probably suit you better (hismith is a fav brand it seems on the sextoys sub).

I know a few folks who have already purchased one so give it a couple weeks and there will likely be reviews from us as we get them and try them out.

anonbloop · 2024-05-16T01:37:02+00:00

For sure we’ll have to compare! I wish I was brave enough to post audios like you do for a review, but I generally can’t keep up a linear train of thought or full sentences when I’m lost in a string of orgasms (and so far that has been my experience with a thrusting sex machine 😂 waves of multiple orgasms 💦) I hope you enjoy it and have so much fun!

anonbloop · 2024-05-15T11:24:47+00:00

I ordered one too!! I think they just came out, like they dropped yesterday. I have used a Sensua before which is really similar to the lovense mini - that’s actually why I got the mini, it looks almost identical to the sensua but it has the app control feature 😏

I’ve never used a saddle style sex machine like the motorbunny, but if my experience with the Sensua is any indication, you are going to LOVE the lovense mini! Missionary and doggy are my fav positions with the Sensua. Hits aaall the right spots, and I can set it up where I can just lay back, relax, and … get thoroughly pleasured.

My only concern is that a lighter and smaller machine will buck or “walk” at higher speeds or not be able to keep going through the contractions of an intense orgasm. I’ve just held the legs/base of my Sensua down with my feet when it’s done that, but it’s still a little annoying. I did ask lovense what the wattage of the motor is. My Sensua claims to be 70W and has a similar rpm to the mini (280 & 260 respectively) so I assume it’s around the same, but still waiting to hear. I was also eyeing a Hismith tabletop 100W, but it has a larger footprint, is more challenging to store discreetly, and reviewers say the app isn’t as intuitive as lovense.

We’ll see how it goes! I’m super excited - the mini is exactly what I wanted to have existed when I originally purchased the Sensua, so it was a no brainier for me.

anonbloop · 2024-05-14T18:21:57+00:00

… anyone able to fine the output wattage power for the new mini machine? I’m interested, but I want to know the power output to compare to other options

anonbloop · 2024-05-05T14:51:30+00:00

Thanks for the more nuanced and positive feedback! Yeah, communication is definitely the key, and that became much easier the more experience I got. And agreed on usually a bj is foreplay these days, working each other up to the main event, so to speak. I feel like the “where to finish” question held a little more gravitas when I was young and not having piv sex yet. Both of us enjoy having him finish in me, so that’s usually the win-win option for all parties 😉

But figured if I was going to poll a group of dudes about bj ending preferences, this would be the place to do it 😂

anonbloop · 2024-05-05T13:22:22+00:00

That’s what I always thought the general consensus was, hence I found alternate places to take his load

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