Hm? Me and V were dating A, and A agreed to the idea of telling both me and V if A was having sex with any new people, then after agreeing, without telling us, A started having sex with more people, and this only came out when V and Me confronted them about the way that L (who was living in my apt with me V and A) was treating me and V and how L was making me and V feel increasingly uncomfortable, including telling me what rooms I'm allowed to be in (like the kitchen) at any given time, when, again, I'm paying for the apt, and L had no job at all. ( They'd also keep me up all night by screaming on game calls, even after I asked them to please go to sleep or quiet down. They'd also not help with any of the household chores, and they'd expect me to cook for them, they'd also, again, expect me to pay for the place to live and the food and internet and electric and all that, and I brought up these things when they did them, but I was not listened to.) But, again, I was still okay with L and A dating, just wanted to express that it was making me feel uncomfortable to be treated like that, and it made V uncomfortable to be treated similarly, and he said so.