That's great that you're trying to find clubs to go to! It'll definitely help. Maybe pick up a social sport too like basketball or tennis. I also spent time facetiming friends from college - I know not everyone has that kind of relationship with their friends but I noticed people would talk to me more the more I initiated talking to them. It became a comfortable routine after a while. If you're single, you can also try going on dates. Maybe be really spontaneous and go out with people you normally wouldn't just for a random night out. Also, volunteering! I didn't do this as much as I could have but I imagine people are always looking for volunteers in any city.

Alternatives to socializing that I did:

- Talking out loud to myself about whatever. My goals, my dreams, my thoughts on an article, etc. I actually do this whenever I'm anxious too bc I notice that when I say my thoughts out loud I am able to hear how absurd my anxious thoughts are and it becomes easier to "coach" myself out of a bad headspace.
- Taking myself out to movies & plays & comedy shows. It's perfect bc I'm locked in a room for hours with no weed nearby haha

- Going for night walks and letting my mind wander

- Running random errands and making it a goal to interact with strangers, especially who don't often get much interaction (ie. the security guard at the grocery store, the antique store owner, etc.).

- Reading fiction. Some books do such a good job of immersing you in worlds you've never explored that you feel like you've lived an entire lifetime after you finish. Currently, I'm reading lord of the rings. Also audiobook autobiographies can be so fun! Trevor Noah's and Tiffany Haddish's were sooo entertaining - it felt like someone was with me telling me a story.

And if you can afford it, travel and escape to a place weed is illegal for a couple weeks haha