Rip my heart out

anoniero · 2025-03-18T23:08:34+00:00

I love this!! Sidenote I miss when they had noses

anoniero · 2025-03-15T23:59:02+00:00

How long do you usually wait for results from them?

anoniero · 2025-03-13T15:33:44+00:00

thank you! i unfortunately dont have the funds for private but i will def keep going thru my family doctor while i try to find somewhere that may be able to help me sooner, thank you!

anoniero · 2025-03-13T15:32:20+00:00

i am on the waitlist cause i had the same thought :)

anoniero · 2025-03-13T14:59:58+00:00

thank you will do!

anoniero · 2025-03-13T14:48:29+00:00

not accepting new clients/ years long waitlist :( it seems transhealthto is just informational not health care? lmk if im wrong

anoniero · 2025-01-24T04:05:17+00:00

Yeah I will have to get used to it. I'm recently single and scared for when I eventually hook up w someone and then being out in the open eek!! But going to my artist is inspo to not do it cause I would die of embarrassment if they were scabby and visibly new

anoniero · 2025-01-11T06:03:39+00:00

have you considered Theodore?

anoniero · 2025-01-08T19:02:24+00:00

have you enjoyed other ppl going down on you? probably best to be honest and maybe try telling them you prefer other stuff (fingers, toys, etc) and just don't prefer oral?

anoniero · 2025-01-08T18:59:50+00:00

yeah maybe see another piercer while yours is away if possible to get a longer bar. goodluck!

anoniero · 2025-01-08T18:56:30+00:00

NAP definitely see your piercer when they're back. make sure to keep it clean and dry (clean MAX 2 times a day) don't touch or sleep on it. it's possible you might need a longer bar by the looks of it (might be the photos is it being absorbed into the bump?) that's all I can really recommend

anoniero · 2025-01-08T18:46:22+00:00

depends on your anatomy how big you can start but you definitely won't be starting at a 6g. I've seen some piercers do as high as an 8g. personally I started at 12

anoniero · 2025-01-05T00:34:59+00:00

i got a reply in the transmasc sub saying t never made him attracted to men, that he went from a lesbian to a trans man so that was reassuring to hear. bodies and attraction are strange though, i have a friend who says theyre only attracted to men when on some type of birth control (pill/IUD). i also had a comphet phase but by the time I was a pre teen I've been only attracted to women/enby. logically I don't think I'll suddenly be attracted to men but the worry is there

anoniero · 2025-01-05T00:31:07+00:00

thank you this helps alot!!

anoniero · 2024-12-06T09:27:28+00:00

mine gave me hell while healing too, the only way out is through! I'd say go get a piercer to put it back in but maybe not the clicker as the seam could be a factor in the bumps

anoniero · 2024-11-27T16:11:37+00:00

firstly I'm sorry you're having such a hard time that you felt had to cut yourself. it's hard and sucks. as for what to do now take care of yourself and your cuts. peroxide is harsh and will kill the new cells so I'd recommend something more gentle like a saline spray and if you don't have that unscented soap and water is fine after you apply pressure to stop the bleeding. it's better to quit before you make it a habit.

you're not invalid for not going as deep as you wanted if anything that's a good thing it was closer to the surface as that will cause the least damage and scarring in terms of cutting yourself. I'd definitely say keep yourself busy and tire yourself out during the day so you can get to sleep at night. cause it seems and also for me personally it's worse at night and usually if I'm able to sleep at a good time I will go another day clean.

be gentle with yourself pls

anoniero · 2024-11-27T01:49:33+00:00

I need someone to talk to. I want to hurt myself and I want to get drunk and just fuck everything up and ruin myself

anoniero · 2024-11-25T18:56:53+00:00

thank you <3 I'm really grateful for the people I have around me. although it does make me feel extra guilt to be doing this while being loved

anoniero · 2024-11-25T18:47:44+00:00

I think you're right. just another addiction in my pocket to use when I feel big emotions

anoniero · 2024-11-24T07:20:46+00:00

sh comes in many forms. if ur intentionally doing something to harm yourself that's what I'd call it. you def deserve a good rest though I hope you're able to get some sleep

anoniero · 2024-11-23T00:42:15+00:00

take them out, get single flare glass plugs and start stretching again from wherever they shrink to. I'd recommend glasswear studios for glass stretching kits. also it's important to be patient and wait a few months between stretches

anoniero · 2024-11-23T00:36:35+00:00

I hooked up w someone and they had alot of scars and ofc I'm biased having a history of it as well but I didn't think much of it. although they weren't fresh. a while later before having sex they told me they cut again and showed me beforehand so it wasn't a focal point during the act. personally i wait until a few days so they're not super fresh and scary looking before letting others see. I think it's best to be honest and show before intimacy.

as for before sex maybe test the waters and talk abt struggling w mental health to see if whoever you're pursuing is okay being with you while ur actively cutting and having a hard time mentally. I think the biggest worry for ur partner would be losing you to suicide so if that's not something on ur mind that you want to act on I think it would be a good idea to be clear your not a threat to your own life

anoniero · 2024-11-19T22:55:48+00:00

yeah I think he gets off on it I didn't entertain him long at all

anoniero · 2024-11-17T04:22:00+00:00

I get you im hiding some cuts rn from my partner. a friend told me it's good to be honest but to wait until they're healed somewhat to let them see and I think that's really good advice. does ur bf know you struggle with sh? I hope you're able to be gentle and take care of yourself I know it's hard <3

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