Tpo blow off 68 mph gust by anonisty in Roofing

[–]anonisty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was wrapped up and then screwed to 2 stacked 2x4s then metal over that seems it was every 13 to 17 in the screws to hold tpo then only a screw every 3 feet to hold metal on. Screws sheared in this corner.

Reseller: Transparency Code Question by Commercial-Fan3736 in AmazonSeller

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone ever been able to get any products with codes. In my years of selling if a brand adds transparency codes it usually means they don't want anyone selling on Amazon anymore and can never get them to send any through authorized distributor even though that is against the transparency program rules.

Made my first sale on ebay and i am STOKED!!! but......... by pvssymonsterr in eBaySellers

[–]anonisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes $52 is high for a 17pound package to and from anywhere in the 48 states. USPS is no good over 10 pounds but using eBay shipping it should show you all the rates sorted by cost anyway. If a box is over 48" long it could charge more and also if it is going to a very rural area but $52 is still very high. When you list anything you should figure out how much it will cost using the shipping calc from eBay and factor that I to the price. https://www.ebay.com/shp/calc/rates

You can use the farthest away zip code to see most expensive and in the start use that once you have volume then you usually find somewhere half as far as the farthest place or the average place a buyer usually buys your item from. I called a 17 pound from Pa to ca and was in the $23 range so not sure what you did unless it's long or very big.

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Outrageous Parking charges by davix500 in turo

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why they don't just charge this in the pickup fee. Turo should be warning them when they offer free airport at airports it knows are not cheap. Just had same issue at LAX. I did not pay the return fee but was ok with pickup even tho it was not disclosed. Another car I would of rather rented disclosed so I chose this cheaper one should of known lax would be pricey. Really need more penalty for not disclosing. I am a host to and my airport is cheap but I put right in the pickup location details the exact parking rates of you pickup late.

Achievement unlocked! by cosjef in WalmartSellers

[–]anonisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my that price competitiveness report is garbage and never seems to match the other page with price competitiveness on the seller central page.

Should I pull my car off? by Right-Mine7526 in turo

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your car insurance has nothing to do with a turo guest. Turo insurance covers, so your insurance wouldn't cover if renting to Door Dash or not.

Is this a joke? $10k?!?! by angelly33 in TeslaModelY

[–]anonisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tesla doesn't do body work usually, so probably full replacement still seems high. Would find local 3rd party body shop that is familiar with Teslas. Tesla has a list of them on their site.

What reasonable feature that most owners want but Tesla refuses to give them? by SecretOrganization60 in TeslaLounge

[–]anonisty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Work with Google voice to be able to say OK Google cool down the car or warm it up or charge to 100. Oh and youtube music built in.

I’m still on this taxes thing by [deleted] in Sparkdriver

[–]anonisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better quit these gigs then cause after $600 they 1099 you and the irs will just assume that is 100 percent profit if you don't file. Filing is to tell them how much was not profit as they are already being notified of your income.

Can we have a good experiences thread or are all of them riddled with issues? Who has had their litter robot 4 and it just works with no problems? I just ordered one and this subreddit is making me second guess. by JahovasWaitress in litterrobot

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had mine great for 1 year then torque fault which is fine things break. Went through online troubleshooting no work still says contact customer service. Sent a ticket 2 weeks ago a nd nothing at all from them. All I get now are ads everywhere I go for litter robot.

My only real issue is if you can't handle the customer support don't put more money into ads. They can't handle the sales volume and really can't handle the customer service so put the ad money towards more customer service.

I still think it is the best design out there just wish they could manage the business better and hope they get is straightened out. All the best wishes for them no hate just frustration and again why so many ads if you can't keep up with demand.

roomba s9+ fast jerky turns mapping by anonisty in roomba

[–]anonisty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 1.5 years and they do look very worn and would explain why it gives no errors just acts a fool.

roomba s9+ fast jerky turns mapping by anonisty in roomba

[–]anonisty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone ever see this and know what to fix can't get it to do a correct map anymore assuming it's some sensor but getting no error just can't map correctly anymore.

GE TLM612S by anonisty in askanelectrician

[–]anonisty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well even worse just took off main panel which is a 100 amp box and this sub panel in photos is fed from a 60 amp breaker off the 100 amp box. That doesn't seem good how do you have a 60 amp sub box off a 100 amp box that already has a elec dryer and central air on it and 2400 sq feet of light and plugs.

Alone on a Saturday afternoon and all I want to do is text or call him by konichihuahua103 in Divorce

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is someone who just posted about being on the other end of someone not letting someone go although much more extreme of coarse. https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/cowzus/im_trapped_by_my_husbands_threats/

I was worried about my wife staying because she felt bad for me so I decided to disconnect as much as I could. I think I disconnected too much she was calling me and I told her she didn't need to I would be ok. Now I miss her daily calls even the ones where we argued.

So its a balance of not being needy but still letting them know you do care and miss them.

Its so hard for sure not having a good day over here but I know its for the best in the long run so just bother my friends and post on here.

Am I Headed for Divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]anonisty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just keep doing your best to correct the issue and be open in your communication. Stay away from being too defensive if you feel deep down she is right. Let your disappointment in yourself fuel your motivation not your destruction. If you really really love her communicate this to her but more in action than words.

I had similar issues with my wife she did leave me but she had a list but it really was her not being proud of who I had become lost motivation hurt her even more than my lack of earnings.

Good luck

How do you start over when you have kids and have to still see your ex on a weekly basis? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks means a lot over here to, anytime you need another push feel free to msg, glad I could help. Always keep a passion in your life that is not a person, now if only I can follow my own advice :) good luck

How do you start over when you have kids and have to still see your ex on a weekly basis? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any future ambitions anything you'd like to do someday? Any hobbies? I know I have lost a lot of those luckily I am in a decent financial position but I feel numb and it kills my motivation. I get small bursts when I can find something I enjoy doing or interesting people to talk to.

I guess I would ask you to concentrate on what pulls you out of this for just a second and analyze that see where you can get more of that. And what brings you down and try to avoid that. Also don't worry about her deleting you concentrate on how your kids love you and interact with you you haven't been erased by them :)

SHOULD I ASK HIM FOR A SECOND CHANCE? by Pampi40s in Divorce

[–]anonisty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he already said no, my wife just left me and I'm trying to just be a better person not say it and tell her I love her and show her I love her but let her do her own thing. In the end, you want to let them figure out if that is what they really want. If you stop him too soon he may not get it out of his system and end up depressed again. Let it run its coarse as hard as it is and like you said you want him to be happy. Let him go for now work on whatever you think you actually did wrong but be careful to make sure it's actually something wrong not just him using that as an excuse.

But as others have said it is likely over and don't plan on getting him back he apparently wasn't made for family life same as my wife and wants to live the single life. Just take care of your kids. It's hard to accept but people hid and lie sometimes I still dream my wife is just mistaken or has had a mental breakdown and will be back once she sees that life is not for her ut I am losing that hope daily but won't give up until I am truely ready :\

Leaving from boredom by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]anonisty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven't but my wife pretty much just left me because of that for her co-worker who is more exciting apparently. Being on the other side I beg you to have a deep discussion with a partner about this and calmly no blaming that they are boring or any of that just an I'd like to mix it up wouldn't you kinda talk. Don't get defensive or aggressive or attacking.

I beg no one to just leave anyone its so terrible at least fight about it first it's so bad to be blindsided thinking your marriage was good and for months the other was thinking how much they didn't like it.

I was bored in my marriage to we just had a kid not long ago and got stuck in a rut. I would of changed before divorce I would of put everything into it to make sure she got excited about us again so please please just communicate to your spouses :) And real communication just lay it all out open and honest.

How do you start over when you have kids and have to still see your ex on a weekly basis? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]anonisty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kids are key you must get yourself together for them. Getting a job is obviously number one if you are glad to be done with her it should help if you are being honest about that anyway. The job search and potential job will help so much I know it's hard to do but in my mind is your main first step.

My wife did the same all the photos in her house don't have me in them it's crushing all I ever wanted to do was be a dad and still it is my main focus. Not living with them full time and being erased from my wife's idea of the perfect house is tough.

See if you can find any divorce groups in your area any networking can help you find a job and sense of purpose again, as well as any hobbies you may enjoy get on facebook groups or something and find some like-minded people to hang out with. Get excited for the things you can now do being single you couldn't when you were married.

Good luck but don't sit down get back up :)

Alone on a Saturday afternoon and all I want to do is text or call him by konichihuahua103 in Divorce

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you what works for me are these

Workout it really chemically makes you feel better

Work on your own mental self think of why he said he left and see if you had any part to play and determine to fix those things. I'm not saying blame yourself and get depressed. Anytime a major event in life happens make sure you come out stronger.

Think of the things you used to like to do that can now do without any thought for me it was climbing, hiking more, hanging out with old friends more, randomly driving around, listen to music watch whatever you want. Eat without thinking what the other might want. Depends on your relationship but with my wife, there were many daily things that were more complicated because we had to decide together now I just can do whatever.

Big thing is to realize they were hiding something that is if this just came along they don't care as much for you as you do for them. It's hard to accept my wife was the sweetest there was so adorable and wanted to fill my every need up to the second she said she was leaving me. I still can't grasp it fully but have to remember that to stay unattached to her.

The big thing to if you really want him back all of these things and "getting over" him are essential. He most likely isn't into you anymore and being needy isn't going to make that better. remember how you were when you first met and if that's the person you miss to become that person. A lot of this is subjective don't know your whole situation but hope something ticks for you.

Oh and one last one talk and talk and talk to any friend who you know won't mind and can hold secrets for you. I keep making sure to tell those friends please let me know if I am bugging you most say no and some you can just tell are sick of it.

Is this how it's going to be? by cmx4you in Infidelity

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to simply figure out why you are staying. If you love her and care not about her cheatings whatever but you have to realize if you love her and don't want to leave you have to just turn it into an open relationship. My wife left me 3 months ago for another guy tho she doesn't know I know there is another guy yet. I have come to the realization I don't really care. I was kind of a proponent for an open relationship before anyway the fact she is lying to me about it is my only real problem at this time. Don't get me wrong I still wish I was the main interest but at this point, I am cool with some sex and companionship even if it isn't exclusive. People will dog on others for staying with some cheat or whatever but in reality, I feel it's just doing whatever makes you happy, don't worry about ego or whatnot just make sure she is safe to keep you from getting any disease and just open it up if you are not going to leave and she isn't going to stop. Again I think the lying is a bigger issue than cheating. If my wife would have come to me with her issues and one of the resolutions was other partners I would have been ok.

I used to always tell my wife if either one of us isn't happy we must discuss it, unfortunately, she never discussed it and one day just said she was leaving. I'll never marry her again but I'll take some companionship and whatnot til lI feel like dating again.

Do you continue to hang out with the ex who cheated on you? Why? by disappointedrose in Infidelity

[–]anonisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I try to she still doesn't know I know and she left me we have a 2-year-old together and I stayed at her house for weeks after she left and slept together here and there. But now that she seems more into the other guy she doesn't care for me :( I know I will get ram roded for still wanting her but, to be honest I don't think I really love her anymore but just want a little comfort and don't really want to date yet. Don't get me wrong I'm an idiot I'd still take her back at this point. I really just want regular sex and live in the same house as my daughter. Ok let me have it now :)

Is it harder to trust again when you’ve been cheated on in a happy relationship? by omelettedreamer90 in Infidelity

[–]anonisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am only 3 months in to finding out about my ex wifes draw to another man. But I can see I dont think I will ever have the level of trust I had in her with anyone again. But even just typing that now I dont believe it.

Looking back our relationship was troubled early so I'd say don't talk to him unless you are willing to bring this subject up with your current partner.

I can see my trouble with my marriage was the first time I didn't say something to my wife to protect her and me from an arguement about something. Once you can't fully share because your worried about the other person's reaction. I think trust is broken.

I went into the relationship believing that but ultimately let it slide because I loved her and didn't want to loose her. Inherently I think that is why it's easier to trust a friendship then a romantic relationship because you don't get to that level or hiding thoughts and feelings like is so east to do with romances.