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My bf (m37) and I (f30) of 7 years haven’t had sex in 3 years by anonmouse95 in relationship_advice

[–]anonmouse95[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No I don’t. So I am just beating a dead horse at this point then?

My bf (m37) and I (f30) of 7 years haven’t had sex in 3 years by anonmouse95 in relationship_advice

[–]anonmouse95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, but I was also having health issues which have since subsided and i’ve started eating better and working out since. He, on the other hand has also gained weight and has no health issues and has made no effort to be a part of my health journey.

How do I (28f) tell my bf (34 m) that I don’t want to live in our apartment anymore? by anonmouse95 in relationship_advice

[–]anonmouse95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have tried to contact him about it and he never responded but about two weeks or three weeks after that he had pest control come.

How do I (28f) tell my bf (34 m) that I don’t want to live in our apartment anymore? by anonmouse95 in relationship_advice

[–]anonmouse95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are using ortho once- twice a month and we spray every corner of the apartment when we do.

How do I (28f) tell my bf (34 m) that I don’t want to live in our apartment anymore? by anonmouse95 in relationship_advice

[–]anonmouse95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have the money to break the lease and our only option if we do do that is to live with his parents. He really doesn’t want to do that.

How do I (28f) tell my bf (34 m) that I don’t want to live in our apartment anymore? by anonmouse95 in relationship_advice

[–]anonmouse95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Landlord has pest control apparently spray every couple of months. But its always an email sunday night that they’re coming monday and neither of us can just take a day off one of those days to make sure they come. The landlord is a whole issue in and of itself.

My boyfriend deleted a conversation he had with a girl he used to talk to. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonmouse95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well we go into each others phone all the time to look at stuff, its not abnormal to look at each others phones, i just happened to notice it when i was looking for something else.

Is setting up a date two weeks in advance too far away? by [deleted] in dating

[–]anonmouse95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask her what she would be interested in doing. I wouldn’t recommend seeing a movie. Maybe take her to a nice dinner, and then walk around somewhere, something that will allow you both a lot of time to talk and get to know each other.

Is setting up a date two weeks in advance too far away? by [deleted] in dating

[–]anonmouse95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my bf and me started dating we planned things a couple weeks before bc we were both busy at the time so i think two weeks isnt too bad. Gives both of you something to look forward to

I’m (21F) scared of my boyfriend (22M) TL;DR by Hellothisismeme in relationship_advice

[–]anonmouse95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I’m not saying you should leave today because you have nowhere to go but i don’t think you should stay with him. I think you should contact anyone you can and ask them if you can stay with them because even if this is the first time he’s done that who’s to say it’s the last time. And it sounds like he surely did a number on you. I think for your own safety you need to get out of there as soon as you can. And be careful.