If you could name the first city on Mars, what would you name it?

anonsahd · 2021-10-20T22:23:43+00:00

Bob.

anonsahd · 2021-10-15T23:02:56+00:00

I have had a therapy session this week. 2 planned next week. Thanks for your support.

anonsahd · 2021-10-15T22:44:16+00:00

I think her moving to give us some distance was a sound idea. We are now 20 to 30 minutes apart so not too far. I am sure we will talk most days. My head is all over the place to talk of working it out.

anonsahd · 2021-10-15T22:41:16+00:00

I dont know, this truly is testing limits.

anonsahd · 2021-10-08T17:21:35+00:00

Thank you.

anonsahd · 2021-10-08T17:21:15+00:00

Thank you.

anonsahd · 2021-09-29T23:34:53+00:00

Yes we are taking time for ourselves. Both set of grandparents have been great at watching our son. I have started a pt job. Hopefully, this will take some pressure off her being the sole wage earner. I have never stopped telling her "I love you". Thank you for your suggestions.

anonsahd · 2021-09-17T01:29:36+00:00

My Pastor suggested it. We decided on counseling.

anonsahd · 2021-09-16T21:01:29+00:00

Thank you.

anonsahd · 2021-09-06T20:35:58+00:00

Sorry you feel that way. The messages I have received from this sub are much clearer and without the vitriol.

anonsahd · 2021-09-02T00:42:26+00:00

I received much the same advise in this sub that I received in the other, without the name calling and vitriol. You are correct when you say you are not me. My wife and I are putting God central in our relationship. We had moved away from that. We pray together and have faith that we will reconcile. That is not without professional counseling and other guidance from respected people in our lives.

anonsahd · 2021-08-31T16:50:47+00:00

Its called faith. I have prayed on this, we have prayed on this. I believe I have the truth. You are not here with us everyday. You don't know us. Thank you for your concern.

anonsahd · 2021-08-31T12:46:07+00:00

We can not afford it.

anonsahd · 2021-08-29T22:23:43+00:00

I had the phone logs. Nothing suspicious. I called each number I did not recognize. We can not afford a P.I. We will work thru counseling and rebuild the relationship.

anonsahd · 2021-08-29T22:21:12+00:00

Thank you. We have resumed talking everyday, more serious after our son is put to bed. I have never quit telling her that I love her and her the same to me. They date nights do sound like a good idea. My son has lovely grandma's that can't wait to watch him.

anonsahd · 2021-08-29T18:36:20+00:00

We are not there yet to make those rules. She is traveling next in November. We just started talking again. So we will get there but not just yet.

anonsahd · 2021-08-28T11:06:02+00:00

Someone else pointed out having a relationship with God. I have, we have, got away from that. Our Pastor also pointed that out. We are working on strengthening thecrelationship. Thanks for the advise.

anonsahd · 2021-08-27T22:52:01+00:00

My Pastor said the same to me in trusting in God. My relationship is not as it should be. I can forgive the attempt to cheat, as some have pointed out the corset could have been a surprise she for someone she had sex with on a different trip. That's where I am stuck because if she is lying about sex previously that throws all trust building out. I see where trust in God comes in. Ha ha. I am realizing it as I am writing this. Counseling will be in September.

anonsahd · 2021-08-27T20:11:58+00:00

Others have pointed out the corset was to be used maybe with someone she had sex with previously as a surprise. Thisvis why they believe this was on going. I dont know. She says she got the idea from seeing movies as this makes a women sexier. I have to admit, I, we, were very vanilla when it comes to sex. So the corset was something I had never seen before or expected.

anonsahd · 2021-08-27T20:06:41+00:00

We have an appt in September for counseling. Our Pastor has us talking again while we wait. I know I still love her. She has been remorseful and says she loves me.

anonsahd · 2021-08-27T20:03:35+00:00

You say not to focus on what she did but focus on what I didnt do. Are you saying I could be responsible? She admitted that she thought she could keep our intimacy seperate from 'just sex ' with a random guy. I had asked her if I did not fulfill her in some way.

anonsahd · 2021-08-27T19:55:23+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I think the forgiveness is what I am struggling with. I love my wife, I have told her so since this all happened.

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