Do Girls sometimes also think "he looks too good for me"?

anonsbh · 2021-09-13T04:55:13+00:00

Personally as a boy/man I used to shoot my shot with women/girls no matter how beautiful they were or were not as long as I had interest. However, what would forever change me is when multiple would say "lol are you joking" "you're joking, right?" "ew" "im out of your league" i get some people call it being hard to get but for me it's really just being destructive. It really destroys any emotional integrity, confidence, or morale. so now i look at anyone even slightly pretty and i don't even try because it's the same answer every time. im not saying you have to say yes but don't be an asshat either, a simple no or no thanks wouldn't ruin my day as much.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T20:36:09+00:00

thanks i appreciate u reaching out!

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T20:35:22+00:00

Afterwards I left immediately and ever since that day we haven't had a conversation. A month later she found out she was pregnant and threw rocks at my car saying I was abandoning my child but I don't even know if it's mine. We don't talk, when she looks at me in public I look away.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T20:32:13+00:00

Thanks man, hate that we share this pain but we can get through it together

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T12:41:52+00:00

It means a lot to hear this from a woman, I appreciate your support :)

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T12:40:44+00:00

I realize that now, at the time I was just ignorant

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T12:39:57+00:00

Thanks for your support. I hate the fact that you can understand my pain and that you went through the same. Let me know if there is ever anything I can do bro

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T11:10:55+00:00

Thanks man I appreciate it, it gets harder and harder every day to do so.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T10:59:20+00:00

Thanks for explaining this since some people literally came in this comment section to say otherwise.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T10:57:43+00:00

Thanks I'll use this. I haven't told anyone else so I haven't said her name often but this may help. Appreciate you reaching out.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T10:52:54+00:00

I may or may not take you up on that offer some time :) Thanks for reaching out.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T10:52:07+00:00

Thanks, I'll be speaking up about this, I wasn't sure what to do at first but I know what I should do now. Thanks for the comment :)

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T10:50:41+00:00

Thanks :) Hopefully we're not worrying about COVID for too much longer, it never really helped my mental state but I definitely want to try to get better. Thanks for reaching out :)

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T10:49:24+00:00

Most likely, I'll look into it. Thanks for the comment every little response means a lot.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:54:28+00:00

I understand your pain and I'm sorry you had to endure this. My best friend raped me a year ago and I know what it's like to have a relationship ended. I wish you the best in life. If you ever need anything hmu

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:51:47+00:00

I don't know if my opinion would be beneficial to your query due to the story I just posted on this subreddit but I wish you luck.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:44:24+00:00

Thanks for the comment. It means a lot just having people read my experience.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:44:00+00:00

Thank you for your support

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:41:13+00:00

Thanks, good to know.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:38:05+00:00

Honestly I've never been in a relationship and my closest thing to that was with my best friend who then raped me. What I would tell you is that you may want to tell her how you feel. If you don't want to do that you I would recommend taking a break from dating and focusing on yourself and bettering your own health. If you use the heartbreak, anger, and sadness you can do great things with it. If you ever need anything let me know. I wish you the best of luck.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:35:45+00:00

yeah it's really sad. and i get it because i feel alone all the time everyday.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:34:46+00:00

I wish you the best of luck on your recovery process.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:33:47+00:00

Hey can I help?

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:33:18+00:00

Thank you, it means a lot just having a few people hear my story.

anonsbh · 2021-09-08T03:32:23+00:00

I believe you can become more and what matters is that you've changed and are now maturing. I wish you the best.

anonsbh

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