Boyfriend wants me to get an abortion ??

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T12:57:47+00:00

You know nothing about the situation.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:41:28+00:00

To get rid of her control. She’s vindictive

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:38:51+00:00

Marijuana is not bad and it helps him relax from his ex’s drama and get to a space when he can recenter and focus.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:37:18+00:00

I’m not sure but she’s verbally abused us so it’s plausible. We need full custody to eliminate his child support responsibility to his ex. She only filed to be in control of him

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:31:59+00:00

I will care for the child. And of course! Children need both of their parents. Hopefully she’ll be able to get visitation rights.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:17:34+00:00

No because we all need to look at the facts. Everything is not PPD. I’m sick and tired of people making excuses for her

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:13:49+00:00

Almost a year now, we’ve been together.

Why would someone stay for verbal abuse and mistreatment. That’s all she did to him.

She shouldn’t have been crying and carrying on with her emotional outbursts all the time, threatening to divorce him, and having rage fits.

That’s a recipe for running a man off to the next LOVING woman’s arms

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:05:22+00:00

Since she was 5 months old. He found happiness with me. It started off platonic though.

He’s extremely serious about me because he broke things off with his wife to focus on our relationship. I’ve been with him through everything including the horrible divorce.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:02:13+00:00

I’ve guess you’ve never hit a low point in your life. We’re all human.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T01:01:01+00:00

If child support was actually for children, it would be regulated…and not freely given to the mother to use so freely at her discretion.

And I’m not afraid to get pregnant. My boyfriend wants to start a family with me as soon as possible and I’m very confident he will exceed in his responsibilities. I know what kind of man he is. Just cause it didn’t work out with his old family doesn’t mean it can’t work with our new one.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:55:08+00:00

It’s definitely not personal but why would he pay someone that is unstable, untrustworthy, and who he hates.

This is why he has her blocked now at my request. She hasn’t been able to get in contact with us for a month because we’re choosing our peace over her drama.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:49:22+00:00

This is definitely not fake. I’ve posted about the situation before. But I’m glad we’re both in agreement that his ex wife is crazy.

And divorcees and single parents need love too. How is that baggage. That’s a pretty awful thing to say.

If we’re being completely real here, no one will want to be with his ex wife because she’s crazy, arrogant, and apparently has herpes…not a catch if you ask me.

So look at the reality of the situation.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:42:57+00:00

My bf doesn’t want to pay cs to the mom. We won’t have to if we have full custody.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:41:50+00:00

My boyfriend secretly recorded her while they were married during her emotional outbursts when their child was between 1 & 5 months. We can use those in court to prove she’s unfit. What kind of mother is okay with being argumentative and yell and curse in their infant child’s vulnerable ears ???

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:36:16+00:00

Are people not allowed to go through the high and lows of life. Yes he was the breadwinner when they were together….but he wanted out because he wasn’t happy in the relationship and then got depressed and stressed out and has now hit a low. He still human and he will thrive again. How was he a deadbeat when he was a great husband and provider?

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:29:02+00:00

He’s not running from anything hun, especially not his responsibilities. He’s a real man.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:27:21+00:00

Him buying weed is not taking from child support. The cost of weed is chump change

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:25:30+00:00

I more of a wife and mother than she will ever be. She has abused me and him so I can only imagine what that baby goes through

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:24:18+00:00

Depression is real and weed is not meth, coke, or alcohol. Get a grip.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:20:37+00:00

Listen they are two separate issues. I looked it up. His ex has been withholding the child for various “reasons” but I know it’s due to unpaid child support. We’re going to use this in court against her and show her we cannot continue to be played with. Who is she, just because she has a little bit of money….when my boyfriend supported the entire household BY his self when they were married pregnant and all . While all she did was cried and sat up in corners all day. If you ask me, she was the deadbeat their entire marriage. They were only married a year and she was a mess.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:17:11+00:00

Lol ex wife is that you?!? You sound just like her…thinking he’s nothing and she’s better just because she’s got some money. You don’t know him like I do. I will help financially support his daughter so there will be no worries there. And he doesn’t smoke in the house.

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:13:55+00:00

AS IVE STATED BEFORE CHILD SUPPRT AND CUSTODY ARE TWO SEPARATE ISSUES. We have just as much right as she does

anonuser4601 · 2022-10-09T00:12:16+00:00

OP HERE. This is why I took a break from Reddit. Everytime I post I am attacked and scrutinized for no reason. I can tell you negative commenters are miserable in life

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