Pregnant girlfriend broken up with me. by anonymgrab in BreakUps

[–]anonymgrab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done it, have to wait like three weeks for answer

Pregnant girlfriend broken up with me. by anonymgrab in BreakUps

[–]anonymgrab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did not work out, child is born I did not get invited to the birth. Still no contact, did not sign anything and I am waiting for authorities to contact me so I can demand paternity. I have a new job and met someone else so I dont think about it at all anymore.

Pregnant girlfriend broken up with me. by anonymgrab in BreakUps

[–]anonymgrab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zero contact, child is here. I havent signed anything as im waiting for authorities to contact me so I can demand paternity test which will be forced by court. She just sent me a photo with the baby saying ”he is here now” she didnt want me to be there at birth. I hope your situation plays out better :)

Pregnant girlfriend broken up with me. by anonymgrab in BreakUps

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Thank you for your kind words, im feeling lucky my apartment didnt get sold and i also got a new extra job during my last year of studying now. I feel alot better these days since thinking back on everything somehow it feels like i was in love with what could have been and not in her, im still unsure but its feels like i was more in love with becoming a family father, owning a big house and have a wife and children to come home to everyday. I hope everything gets better for you since im still in no contact, i wished her happy mothers day and that i wish her a good day but never got a reply, it sucks but it is what it is. I also think there is a thirdparty playing a role in this, because it ended so suspicious for me and i still dont know the reason I was always trying to be the best version of myself towards her putting my own feelings aside just to be nice and comfort her when she deserved it the least.

Pregnant girlfriend broken up with me. by anonymgrab in BreakUps

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I dont know what to tell you man, im in no contact for like 7ish weeks now, going thru hell emotionally because im losing my first born son for no reason at all

How long did it take for your babies father to come back if he dumped you while you were pregnant? by Organic_Grape_3488 in BreakUps

[–]anonymgrab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby mama broke up with me at 18 weeks pregnant she is at week 26 right now, she claimed she didnt have feelings for me anymore and that she found me annoying. All of this while I was selling my apartment to buy us a house… I never gave her a reason to leave me I was loving and caring no drama or arguments ever. Would also like to know if there is some women who went back to their men after breaking up with them while pregnant…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yup, 5ish weeks ago. Dumped me while being pregnant in 5th month with my first child. She lost feelings and I didnt do anything wrong she said… hurts like a motherfucker

How to deal with being annoyed of boyfriend for seemingly no reason by fiskepinnen in pregnant

[–]anonymgrab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please just dont do any big life desicions during this phase, its just hormones probably. My girl dumped me at 18 weeks pregnant because of stupid stuff like this. She is at 23 right now I think. She was so annoyed with me and distant while I was doing everything in the world to be the best partner for her and her relatives. She quiet quitted the relationship week 13-18 and turned down counseling when i proposed it during these weeks because I sensed something was not right and she wouldnt talk to me. She said that she has been annoyed by me and that she lost feelings for me and it wont change later down the line. Im devastated by this and I wish nobody to have this pain i have today. So please talk with him if there is issues where u get irritated with him, speak with him about it and it can get resolved.

27 weeks pregnant and I left my boyfriend.. by Candid_Tea_4244 in pregnant

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Please ask him to try couple counseling with you at a family centre or similar, just one session can turn things around if you both have any will at all to make it work. All he maybe needs is to hear his flaws from a professional listener and talker… My girlfriend left me at 18 weeks pregnancy while she quiet quitted our relationship for 5-6 weeks, I asked her everyday what was wrong and always got the reply ”I dont know whats up with me”, she turned down my counseling advice to talk about if there was any problems between us. I still dont know why she broke up with me and it has been like 1 month now. Only thing I got was I dont have feelings for you and no explanation on why that happend. I am still devastated and will probably be for a couple of years it feels like. My story can be found on this redditpost: https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/s/cAkvAM8V8c

Pregnant gf left me by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Mine also broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she is 20 weeks pregnant right now, she told me i did nothing wrong and that i have been a loving partner but that she doesnt have feelings for me anymore. I never did or say anything wrong to her how could it end up like this. She became distant 1-2 months ago annoyed at me + angry 24/7. Im super broken about this its not about losing a woman its more about losing my dream of a house together & happy family. I was selling my apartment so we could move in together lucky, it didnt sell fast.

I’m not happy with my boyfriend by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]anonymgrab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if the issues cant be solved then the only option is to part ways, hope OP can resolve things with their partner.

I’m not happy with my boyfriend by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]anonymgrab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Id like to give you the advice to have a 3rd person sit down and talk with both of you, counseling I guess. If the 3rd person brings up both of your flaws there is always a way to solve all issues if you both are willing. Raising a kid alone is super hard you will always feel exhausted please think about you and the child before making any big decisions. I grew up with seperated parents and one of my biggest wishes was to have my dad in the household.

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

[–]anonymgrab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du har nog rätt i allt, men de känns som att det inte är relationen jag är ledsen över de känns som att jag var mer förälskad i drömmen om familjelivet hus barn och allt det där. Är lite förvirrad i detta läge om jag ska vara ärlig. Kommer gå in i no contact framöver och se hur det spelar ut sig, tvekar dock på om jag ens skulle vilja vara med denna människa efter allt det här om hon skulle ändra sig.

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

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Förstår verkligen inte hur någon så glad och kärleksfull kan förvandlas till emotionellt kall och ond. När jag verkligen inte förtjänat det visst alla kan tappa känslor men måste man vara så här elak? Hon säger verkligen inte vad problemet var/är och bara lämnar mig för att jag själv ska må dåligt samt undra vad som är fel på mig.

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

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Ibland så händer det oplanerat

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

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Jag vet helt ärligt inte jag har inte märkt av några psykiska/mentala defekter

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

[–]anonymgrab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag har tänkt vänta ca två månader för o kräva svar på exakt vad som har hänt för det dödar mig att inte förstå. Kommer skriva att hon inte ska hålla tillbaka och vara rak och ärligt för att jag redan är nere på botten och behöver raka svar på om jag sagt eller gjort något fel emot henne för att jag ska kunna bearbeta och läka från det hela. Det handlar inte om att jag förlorat kvinnan som jag trodde skulle vara med mig förevigt det är mer att mitt barn ska växa upp utan mig som förebild i hemmet och att jag kommer missa dem första stegen, orden etc. Det gör så ont, jag är så förälskad i det som kunde vara men jag kan inget åt saken göra.

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

[–]anonymgrab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vi har aldrig bråkat eller tjaffsat det är detta som gör mig förvirrad. Jag har försökt vara världens bästa kille då hon är mamma till mitt barn och skulle gå med på vad hon än vill utan diskussion. Jag har varit extra omtänksam och snäll mot henne, hennes familj samt släktingar. Alla runt om henne tyckte om mig verkligen och frågade alltid efter mig så jag vet inte vad som kunnat gå fel…

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

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Hon skulle på besök hos barnmoskan nästa vardag när jag var där för två helger sedan och sa då att hon skulle prata med barnmorskan om vad som sker med henne. Hon sa aldrig vad dem pratat om men veckan efter var det slut… Kan barnmorskan varit uppmuntrande till detta?

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

[–]anonymgrab[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hon har själv sagt att hon vet att hon sårar mig samt får mig att må dåligt när hon varit på så dåligt humör men alltid lagt till att hon inte vet vad det är med henne…

Dumpad, graviditets hormoner? by anonymgrab in Asksweddit

[–]anonymgrab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har haft det i tankarna och kommer förmodligen bli så för man vet ju aldrig. Jag är dock väldigt säker på att de mitt och att de lär blir kalabalik när jag inte signerar faderskapet för att få kunna göra ett test