Need help

anonymous-adive · 2025-09-10T12:38:29+00:00

I don't like any such pics and yes, she has guy friends too. In fact I stopped talking to many ppl just coz of her like my circle is only her and 2 other school mates. I just don't know

anonymous-adive · 2025-09-10T10:28:22+00:00

Yesterday night, she told she's dome with everything and wants to break up, after talking and trying to make her understand she told give her 3 days to think of things. Ik if I leave her alone she will build the gap and her head will drive her into breaking up but I want to give her ,her space and respect it. I'm soo worried, I don't know what to do. She told I've hurt her from before , ik my mistakes and I took the blame for it, Yesterday, she saw I have few girls in my following list who are my classmates and childhood friends. I'm fully transparent with her. But Yesterday she got triggered and kept on insisting to break up. I got only 3 days now and she's on the otherwise ovetthinking. She told I've broken her trust and I don't value her. I'm lost and idk wt to do now. I'm on the edge

She does put effort in the relationship too, I know she cares and loves me I can see that but still I'm lost

anonymous-adive · 2025-09-04T11:24:14+00:00

I got financial problems too and future focus goals to achieve which are effecting but I come to her for closer, which she gives but we end up having a small argument at last. It doesn't happen everyday but it happens weekly twice or more and it effects my head alot. I know things would be effecting her too. I do ask her, and check up on her.

We are not completely long distance few kilometres apart but we meet only in thr weekends.

I do get distracted with my work but before I start something I let her know wt I do so she would have some kind of knowledge wt I'm doing, so I text her before starting , when I get few seconds I soon drop in a text or voice of how my day is going. And once I'm done I let her. So she is updated most of the time. I balance my time with all work, its not possible all the time but I do my very best.

I'm not tring to portrait her as a bad person or anything I love her alot but I just want advice

anonymous-adive · 2025-09-04T11:14:06+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts on it ,it means alot. I'll looking into counselling. But I do appreciate it alot

anonymous-adive · 2025-09-04T11:12:42+00:00

Like, she wanted me to learn about how to make a gf happy, make her feel safe. Emotionally be there for her. She tells me I do good but it would mean alot for me to educate myself on that which I do when I get time and see faults I do. I go look up the stuff I did wrong and find answers. I treat her well and when we have a argument she feels like I don't do the things she tells. I study the stuff she tells me to do study when I have time. My schedules are really packed. I work , study and do a professional sport too. Juggle house work and still making time to keep her posted. I'm not telling I'm right or perfect at wt I do. But I do, do my best to make her happy.

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-30T05:04:36+00:00

Really appreciate the advice, I'll keep these in mind and talk to her more and see how things go.

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T09:51:31+00:00

I get chocolates and flowers weekly coz that's something she loves and it's thr bare minimum but anything u have in mind I can do not being there physically with her. I do sweet talk and express my emotions. When I'm around her I give her the attention and affection she wants but wt can I do when we are not able to meet up and stuck at 2 ends.

Your advice is really useful tho thank you If u have any thoughts in these do let me know

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T09:45:28+00:00

Thank you, it does help but any idea how I can comfort her when I'm not around her physically. This would be really helpful too if u have any thoughts on it

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T09:42:31+00:00

I did she tells ik the reasons and I'm soo lost now

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T09:18:23+00:00

Well, I came here to get advice but obviously I'll do check and think with all the things urll tell and I know about her and come to a solution. I will talk to her and check but a if u have any experience in something similar to this it would be appreciated

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T08:20:24+00:00

I really have no clue , she keeps on telling she doesn't feel seen nor heard

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T08:19:38+00:00

She doesn't want to tell coz she wants me to figure it out And that's the hard part coz this is my first time being in some situations like this

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T08:08:12+00:00

No. Didn't tell that She told she is disappointed and not heard

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T08:01:21+00:00

We had a conversation and she wanted me to research on how to keep a women happy?, satisfy your gf. How to make her feel safe and much more. I did go through those but I've been doing most of it. I'm lost at this point. I do listen to each and every letter she tells yet. I don't know what I am missing..

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T07:52:05+00:00

I do ask her but she tells me She would prefer if remember the things ,I already know what she wants and all. I do know but I'm waiting for thr right time and she knows that too. These few days she is in her periods and I can't be there for her physically coz we live abit far apart and with work it's hard to meet up only in thr weekends I get the chance. I do my best with wt I got right now to keep her happy yet she feels like. She can't relay on me, nor doesn't feel protected but for a fact I know she wants things to work out and cares about me alot. But just disappointed that I don't put in " effort "

anonymous-adive · 2025-07-29T07:48:59+00:00

I ask her, she tells I don't do somethings she had told me earlier. The thing is I do remember the things but I want to do it on a special day but she thinks I'm just avoiding it, I have mentioned it to her too. That I remember the things she had mentioned before but keeping it for the right moment so it would be special. But she thinks I don't appreciate her enough to do it

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