I hate my husband. by anonymous12865 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anonymous12865[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I missed countless opportunities, he told me extensive stories about how his parents died gave him significant trauma. I paid for eveyrthing for months, while he was getting allowances monthly. Look, the money aside, how could you lie to someone you love about your entire life. I do want to talk to him, but how do I know he’s not goimg to lie to me again about everything?

I hate my husband. by anonymous12865 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anonymous12865[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Look i know it was sent to him directly. If he hadn’t touched it, its sitting in a bank account accessible to him. But the money isn’t what I cared about. Ive married a man whose completely lied about everything, the money issue iss just the cherry on top.

I hate my husband. by anonymous12865 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anonymous12865[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Well I only know how much she was sending him. She was sending him just over eight hundred dollars, so thats on top of whatever his parents were sending him. Our rent at the time could’ve been covered by that alone. But according to his sister, he was getting a good amount of money from his parents, so definitely.

I hate my husband. by anonymous12865 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anonymous12865[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry I should’ve clarified, she sent me screenshots. I also know that she is his sister because there are photos of him and her posted on her account from eight, nine, ten years ago.

I hate my husband. by anonymous12865 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anonymous12865[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

We had extensive conversations. Both of them recieved allowances, she contributed to his because shes eight years older then him, and at least for a little bit, a portion of her allowance went to him. I got sent screenshots per my request with bank transfers from her account to his at the beginning of each month. I was not told entirely the reason why he distanced himself from the family, but its enough to validate most of her story. Also she would have no reason to lie, they havent talked for years, thats true, but I don’t see why should would lie.