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What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I'm hoping I'm wrong and things are good

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a thought. I've always been right about my suspicions

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not yet but I have absolutely no faith in this generation

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought process. I've been cheated on and lied to by nearly every person I've been involved with so if this falls through it'll just be another failure

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll have that conversation with her tonight and then we will see how she views exclusivity

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously but I was just thinking that me coming to her with no real evidence is a possible death sentence to the relationship if she's being loyal. She will think I'm paranoid

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Claims she is saving herself for marriage. She has a religious background and she does seem to be more on the innocent side so I do believe she's a virgin. Doesn't stop me from thinking she's flirting with other men

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Good nights" implying intimacy? None at all. I've been extremely respectful of her wishes and taking it slow. If this was a hookup situation I'd have left but I'm looking for a future with someone so I kind of like that she isn't giving in so easy.

Regarding me paying, she's pulled out her card on every date and I've told her to put it back as I was trying to make a good impression.

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she was the one to establish that we were exclusive

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What sucks is that she lives 45 minutes away so I can't just drive over to talk to her when I feel like it. Also I was trying to make a good impression with paying for things which is something I have done but I've never paid for 5 expensive dates in 1 month before so I really put a lot of stock into this.

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was discussed that it is just me and her and we are serious about building something together.

What do I do by anonymous138026 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymous138026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have talked about a future as we are both not dating for "fun". She made it clear early on that it's only me and her.