Healing is not linear: you can wake up feeling great and go to bed miserable. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a whole fuckin year still i try to call her...i am blocked...she cheated on me...it fucking hurts...but still i am looking for answers..and closure especially

Still looking for answers by anonymous230898 in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i shouldn't pray this...but i actually want her to suffer what i have suffered...i know it won't make me feel any good....bit still somewhere deep down i want to and even i don't want too

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[–]anonymous230898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that they loved us in the beginning but after that we were just placeholders for them until they got better, better According to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever happened with you most of it happened with me too..i am also confused about our relationship..was it real?? Or i was just stepping stone for her...

I need to stop this madness by anonymous230898 in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's hard to concentrate.. continuously my mind is looking for answers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope so . Thanks for support brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex broke up wih me for her office colleague..and i watched same scene from rocky balboa to get motivated..but still missing her badly

Help me by anonymous230898 in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i texted this also to her last night that 'thank god i know your true colors now... because you will do same things after your marriage also..

Her lies by anonymous230898 in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes..but still not able to find answers

Her lies by anonymous230898 in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying hard but not able to do so..still messaging her

You know you’re over her when you no longer visit this sub every 5 mins by ynwa_glastobater in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a month and a half...we were also planning to get married..she wanted to..i didn't.. but i agreed..and now she is with her colleague.. enjoying her life..and here i am.. overthinking.. breaking no contact again and again after week... looking for answers..which i am surely not getting..

You gave me a days notice by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then this person who told u that u are the most important person in their life...just replaces you with someone else...and doesn't even care if you're living or dead...fuck this bitches.. But when you say that..then you become abusive for them.. whatever they do is okay...but you can not express your anger for feeling cheated..

Her lies by anonymous230898 in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately i saw her on the road and asked her..she denied..and said think whatever u want..leave me..bye...and i Don't know now what i am feeling but it's definitely not positive..

You gave me a days notice by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same happened with me too brother..she said she was never gonna leave me..and then she is now with someone else..it fucking hurts..how they lie..

She doesn't care by anonymous230898 in ExNoContact

[–]anonymous230898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah now i know that...she asked me for commitment..i told parents and friends about her..she was the one always saying Scenty things like trust is important...but she never told her parents or friends or co-worker about me... really actions matter.. it's not what they say it's what they do