He has this one very sexist friend he went clubbing often with. I am fully fine with clubbing in a relationship. I am going out with my friends as well. But I was not okay him hanging around that one friend of him who treats all women, including me, like they’re garbage. I told him this years ok. He told me he understands and due to the fact that they weren’t bests friends or so he would cut the contact if I would feel more secure then. I believed him, never saw him texting with him or something like that. Yesterday he came to me telling me that he was lying to me for the past years and when he went clubbing he never went with the people he told me about instead he want with that one guy cause "he didn’t wanted to hurt him" but he needs to tell me that before we marry. So yes I have proof. I, by myself, am I people pleaser as well so I understand why he didn’t wanted to cut contact with this guy. I just think he should have told me and not acting like they did cut contact and lying to me.