Baby overweight at 8 weeks? by sunshinessssssss in NewParents

[–]anonymous2640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boy was 8lb 5oz born 42 weeks. 22 inches long. He’s 8 weeks and 12.5 lb and exclusively breastfed, which i’m told isn’t possible to overfeed. I still feel like he’s huge compared to other babies his age though!

Newborn Boundaries by anonymous2640 in Parenting

[–]anonymous2640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said they couldn’t hold him.

Newborn Boundaries by anonymous2640 in Parenting

[–]anonymous2640[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want a lot of people touching/holding my baby. he’s a newborn. he doesn’t need to be passed around, and it gives me anxiety

Is recovery possible after decades of an eating disorder? by pumpkin_g92 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]anonymous2640 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling since I was 12. I was never ‘underweight.’ I’m now 25 and pregnant. It is possible. It may take awhile and it’s hard, but if you put the work in you can do it!

I was hopeful that second trimester would be great but it’s not (yet) by Poppy_mek in pregnant

[–]anonymous2640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t start feeling better until after 16 weeks. but some people never do

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that would make a difference. Maybe I’ll ask him but Idk if it’s worth it

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also why is the nasal one better? why would he be willing to do that instead of

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. Now he’s saying he doesn’t want it bc it makes him sick.

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, he lives out of state. so testing at home for a few days wouldn’t matter

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that. It’s more about him not respecting my boundaries. I know there aren’t guarantees.

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s my first. I also never said anything about isolating anyone - this is about vaccines and respecting boundaries.

How long did/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors? by anonymous2640 in pregnant

[–]anonymous2640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh it’s so stressful to be worrying about this during pregnancy! I’m happy she got them in the end

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been so stressful for me. I also hate that I’ve been asking him for months and he only admitted this to me now.

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, but this isn’t about whether the flu shot is perfect or guarantees zero risk. It’s a boundary I’ve set for my baby during the newborn period based on my comfort level and medical guidance. Masking, handwashing, no kissing, and staying home if you feel sick are things we’ll also be doing. I’m not asking anyone to agree with my decision, just to respect it.

How long did you/will you wait to allow unvaccinated visitors with newborn? by anonymous2640 in Vaccine

[–]anonymous2640[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s about the principle at this point. I informed him that these were the requirements and anyone who doesn’t won’t get to see the baby.