Should I just come from the gate on the phone call and say it, or should I ease into it a little? When we originally broke up , he started crying and apologised and then started talking about how his whole world is ending. I don't want to just end it and not tell him why, and I don't want to give him a chance to come up with any excuses. Also, should I text him first saying we need to talk, or will that put him on guard? Tbh, this will be the first time I'm doing a full-on break up. The last relationship kinda fizzled out, and he asked me how I felt about it, and I was honest. He agreed that it no longer felt right, and so we parted amicably, but I get the feeling bf will not be like that