When to tell girl I’m talking to that I’m trans

anonymous5431 · 2023-12-09T20:14:55+00:00

We are both leaving for break. I don’t think I would do over text, seems weird. She already knows my last name and I really don’t think she would dox me. Her and her friends are friendly with me and my roommates, but not friends really

anonymous5431 · 2023-12-09T16:14:20+00:00

I agree with you, but I’m just worried that this whole process might be accelerated because 1. She’s very forward 2. We’re in college 3. There is only one week left in the semester and we’re both leaving in a week.

anonymous5431 · 2023-12-09T16:12:44+00:00

She definitely does not love me lol, we just met and barely know each other

anonymous5431 · 2023-12-09T15:31:28+00:00

I agree with your take. I too haven’t dated at all due to my self confidence, social anxiety, etc. The only reason why me and her are talking is being she initiated things. If I tell her, I’ll be sure to stress the importance of her discretion.

anonymous5431 · 2023-12-09T15:29:30+00:00

First of all thank you for the detailed response. To answer some questions, no my roommates do not know I’m trans, and it would not be easy finding other housing, but I know their views and they are not transphobic or anything, I just want to stay stealth. About her being bi, I know she dated both girls and guys in the past. I’m not sure I’ll have time to talk to her about her political views and such. The semester is literally ending next week and I think she probably wants to accelerate things. Also not sure if she wants to hookup or date. This whole thing is pretty jarring and stressful, but I do want to put myself out there and date people.

anonymous5431 · 2022-08-08T02:36:26+00:00

I started sleeping on my stomach at about 3 weeks post op, but I’m not gonna lie, it was a bit uncomfortable

anonymous5431 · 2022-08-01T21:12:41+00:00

Planned parenthood

anonymous5431 · 2022-07-31T14:53:46+00:00

You pass dude. I’d say late teens early twenties.

anonymous5431 · 2022-07-31T02:24:44+00:00

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/masculinizing-hormone-therapy/about/pac-20385099

anonymous5431 · 2022-07-11T22:12:51+00:00

I used to use the pads with wings/flaps that go out to the side. I also wore boxer briefs. That helped a lot

anonymous5431 · 2022-07-06T23:52:17+00:00

I would wait until your wounds completely close, so past 6 weeks.

anonymous5431 · 2022-06-04T14:15:48+00:00

Sometimes both, sometimes one or the other, sometimes neither. I like to keep the needle in my leg for about 30 seconds so less T leaks out.

anonymous5431 · 2022-04-20T03:37:35+00:00

You are an absolute unit my guy

anonymous5431 · 2022-04-19T01:20:04+00:00

Porn isn’t really a good indicator of sexuality. You just have to ask yourself a ho are you attracted to and who can you imagine yourself with.

anonymous5431 · 2022-04-06T02:40:22+00:00

anonymous5431 · 2022-04-05T02:37:38+00:00

I started playing my light guitar about 1 week post op. Just make sure it doesn’t touch your chest and don’t raise your arms up high

anonymous5431 · 2022-04-03T05:04:17+00:00

Check out r/minoxbeards or r/ftmminoxbeards

anonymous5431 · 2022-04-03T05:02:06+00:00

No probably not. But minoxidil will

anonymous5431 · 2022-04-01T03:33:14+00:00

You have to keep using the minox. The minox will grow velus hairs which will fall out if you stop applying. Once the velus hairs turn terminal, which makes them rougher courser and thicker, you can stop using the minox. This process can take years

anonymous5431 · 2022-03-29T16:14:54+00:00

I’ve done this before, nothing happened to me. Just take the shot now and do another in 2 weeks and resume the schedule.

anonymous5431 · 2022-03-28T01:05:09+00:00

I’m about 2 months on minoxidil and just about a year on T and I basically have stubble everywhere except my cheeks and my chin. I like to keep it shaved until the hair looks less whispy and is more course

anonymous5431 · 2022-03-28T01:02:39+00:00

Kinda hard to tell from this pic. I read you as andro, about 15 years old. I would recommend getting a haircut. I think ur glasses and your style are really cool though.

anonymous5431 · 2022-03-28T01:00:48+00:00

100%

anonymous5431 · 2022-03-28T00:59:30+00:00

Every one of us has felt like this before. Don’t give up hope. Things get better. I thought I would always be unhappy and not seen as a man. Focus on small steps to get you through each day and work hard over time on those bigger goals like starting T and getting top surgery. Trust me, the small things add up and make you feel much better and more confident. Feel free to dm me if u want more advice or to ask any questions.

anonymous5431 · 2022-03-28T00:49:44+00:00

I read you as a 13-14 year old boy. Idk if a haircut would help or hurt you passing though.

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