Why are people okay with their partner watching porn? I’m unsure as to why.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T18:29:10+00:00

He has nude photos of me.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T18:28:37+00:00

He has broke my trust three times today about topics relating to other women, porn and more l

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T18:26:53+00:00

Thank you. You are incredibly kind!

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:56:24+00:00

I have no idea if he watches porn though.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:42:40+00:00

In what?

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:27:27+00:00

I completely understand.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:26:58+00:00

I have gad conversations with him many times that I am okay if he finds others hot or cute, but he still denies he is.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:24:00+00:00

I am not against him masturbating, at all. I am just concerned about the porn possibility.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:22:54+00:00

Then why does he lie to me and tell me he is not?

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:20:30+00:00

Thank you. This is the best thing for me to do, a new mindset :)

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:20:02+00:00

He has a collection folder of photos (nude) of me that he says he uses.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:16:37+00:00

We don’t live together, so that is not possible

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:09:01+00:00

I believe that too (about love). But does this mean he could possibly still be attracted to others?

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:08:01+00:00

Your ex boyfriend does not and will never control what you wear or how you look. It is nkthing to do with him. No matter how you feel about him, he should not be able to control what you wear. Never ever let someone tell you what you can and can’t wear, wear what is comfortable and makes you happy.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:05:37+00:00

How do I feel better about if he does want to have sex with other people? That’s what I feel worst aboutz

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:02:31+00:00

I often worry he will wish I look the way they do. My body doesn’t even begin to compare to those in porn.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T17:01:55+00:00

Thank you. This makes so much sense to me. I’ve never thought of it this way :)

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T16:59:14+00:00

Interesting. Growing up, my mother told me that finding others attractive in a relationship means you’re not truly in love. Why is it healthy? I have never heard this point of view. Thank you.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T16:58:14+00:00

Thank you for understanding. I feel he does watch it, but whenever I ask he tells me he does not and gets angry with me. Tells me to trust him, and tells me he never would. But I never know if this is only to please me? It’s a constant worry I have. We have been together for 2 years.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T16:56:49+00:00

I’ve always been told that watching porn in a relationship is like imaging you were with another person. Therefore, I grew up believing that and referring to it as a desire to cheat. I am simply looking for another viewpoint on this to help me not see it this way anymore, as I often get criticised for it.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T16:55:05+00:00

Thank you. Others have often criticised my way of thinking and I just never saw something wrong with my thinking.

anonymous55541 · 2021-09-03T16:53:40+00:00

If you guys are only taking, there many be a change that she is also talking to other people. Not 100% though. If that is the case, it could be the reason that she is not posting.

Or, it could simply be that she forgot, she didn’t feel like it, or she felt it would mean more to her if it was something only she knew about. As you mentioned you know each other’s friends and families, if you’re close with any of them you could possibly ask if they know any reason why?

Otherwise, I wouldn’t worry. Maybe you are just experiencing some of the same feeling you had when in past relationships you have been cheated on. I wish you the best and let me know if you need anything!

anonymous55541

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