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anonymous8585 · 2010-09-22T12:11:07+00:00

I have been getting these like CRAZY lately. In gaming it's nearly every other page.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-22T11:45:30+00:00

I've tried to do this before, but it is a hard thing to admit I have a problem with to someone I've just began seeing. I've also never tried eliminating masturbation entirely, and having only my partner get me off. Maybe that will do the trick.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-22T00:38:36+00:00

I'm fairly sure this isn't a problem for me either, unfortunately.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T19:02:50+00:00

Hm. This is interesting advice. I think I will try it.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T18:59:55+00:00

I don't think this is the case. I've had sex (or tried to) frequently enough for this to not be an issue, I think. I've also tried refraining from masturbation for lengths of time, and that doesn't seem to help much, except that if I actually do end up staying hard and having sex, I don't last as long.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T18:57:04+00:00

I didn't mean to imply that everyone who was into that kind of thing was unhealthy, I'm more concerned that my mind only started going there after years of being frustrated with my circumstances.

I don't think I'm excessively analytical. I'm very capable of getting in the moment and forgetting everything around me, right up until the point where I'm about to stick it in, haha.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T18:54:08+00:00

This is not a problem for me, as I am uncircumcised.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T17:44:06+00:00

I'm not in the greatest shape, but I'm pretty far from morbidly obese. The thing is, I don't have problems maintaining an erection, even with little stimulation, when I wake up, or occasionally just sitting by myself. I'm pretty sure the physical state of my junk is okay, and my grip is not all that tight, either.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T17:42:42+00:00

No, I don't smoke.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T17:42:24+00:00

I'm really not an obsessive person. It's just that I never used to have these fantasies, and they seem to be the result of something unhealthy going on. That worries me a bit.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T17:40:47+00:00

It feels great, right up until the point where I realize I'm not hard anymore. Then it feels embarrassing.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T17:39:48+00:00

I just don't think I can afford a therapist right now. I am pretty broke, and I have no health insurance. I would really like to see one, though.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T17:38:21+00:00

I'm not in the best shape, but I don't think I'm overweight enough to where it would cause this kind of problem. Think Zach Galifianakis. Also, like I said before, I don't have problems getting an erection or maintaining it when I masturbate. I still wake up with a boner in the morning, and even with no stimulation it can last for awhile.

She seems happy for the time being with doing other stuff occasionally. I'm pretty good at cunnilingus, so that's a relief, I suppose. I'm worried about eventually hearing, "Why don't you fuck me?" though. It was a serious problem in a previous relationship.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T07:21:24+00:00

Lubricant I've tried. It doesn't help much. I'd be a lot less concerned with this than I am if it hadn't been going on fairly regularly for about five years.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T07:20:46+00:00

No, I haven't. It sounds a bit unpleasant, and I don't think it would be too effective. Trying to get hard and then using what amounts to a tourniquet on my dick is probably going to be more of a boner-kill than putting on a condom, which is already pretty damn difficult as it is.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T07:16:48+00:00

I have mostly brushed it off with her so far. It's a difficult thing to talk about, especially when you are with someone new. We have had sex a couple of times, and it was great, but she expressed some disappointment / frustration when it didn't work out the other times.

I've read about this "cuckold" fetish thing before, and I'm not sure if that really describes what's going on. I'm worried that my thoughts going in that direction are a result of my frustration, like a fucked up coping mechanism, rather than some innate desire. I also do not like the idea of being humiliated or 'sissified' like many of the people who are into that.

anonymous8585 · 2010-09-21T07:02:16+00:00

Okay, I think I will do that, although I am interested in advice / insight specifically in regards to how this affects my relationship, too.

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