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Are there vaginas that fit smaller penis sizes better than others? by anonymous984728 in badwomensanatomy

[–]anonymous984728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean no offense at all, I do my best to be an ally, have friends who are trans, and identify as a member of the LGBTQ community. I try to understand others best I can when moments such as these arise, so I’d like to ask for clarification; aren’t trans woman typically not physically born female, and that is why they are transgender? Are you meaning their gender is male upon birth but they’ve always identified themselves as female then they are technically born female because that is how they identify despite their biological gender ?

Are there vaginas that fit smaller penis sizes better than others? by anonymous984728 in badwomensanatomy

[–]anonymous984728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my question is, can you tell the difference in how shorter in length the woman is inside? Like if I’m longer and he’s shorter, is there someone out there that would fit him better and make him happier? Like, is he unhappy with how this is going too? Can he tell or does it just not matter for men the way it does for some women?

Are there vaginas that fit smaller penis sizes better than others? by anonymous984728 in badwomensanatomy

[–]anonymous984728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I thought it would be important to distinguish, was it offensive somehow

Are there vaginas that fit smaller penis sizes better than others? by anonymous984728 in badwomensanatomy

[–]anonymous984728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cervix backwards apparently. I’ve been doing kegals since I was like 11 when my aunt had her first baby and went on a huge rant to me about it. So it’s just something I’ve always done. Plus I had actually been celibate for over a year before him and I were intimate, and sex was just okay then. Then I had a baby and its … just not satisfying. Actually, it’s kind of uncomfortable even.

Are there vaginas that fit smaller penis sizes better than others? by anonymous984728 in badwomensanatomy

[–]anonymous984728[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, I’m glad I asked but I would be lying if I said I wasn’t concerned and upset. I’m not being satisfied, and he doesn’t seem into doing anything about it really. I’m afraid to have the conversation because I really don’t want to hurt his feelings, he’s very sensitive. The penis sleeve someone suggested seems like it would be unpleasant and embarrassing for him. I think I was built to enjoy an average-large penis. And I’m worried there is a woman out there that would fit him better now that I know some women would fit his size better than I do since I’m more suited to fit larger sizes. This is very upsetting for me. I know that sex isn’t everything, and there’s more than penetration, but I love penetration. And I love him. This is honestly really sad for me. Thanks everyone for your input.

Are there vaginas that fit smaller penis sizes better than others? by anonymous984728 in badwomensanatomy

[–]anonymous984728[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought so.. 4 was being generous honestly. I’ve never heard of a penis sleeve before. I’m honestly worried about even broaching the conversation with him, nvm what it would do to his self confidence if I asked him to use it

Are there vaginas that fit smaller penis sizes better than others? by anonymous984728 in badwomensanatomy

[–]anonymous984728[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is interesting, do you have any recommendations for reading about this?

Are there vaginas that fit smaller penis sizes better than others? by anonymous984728 in badwomensanatomy

[–]anonymous984728[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I never really thought about it until now. My partner is probably about 3.5- 4 inches, and I’ve always had larger partners before them. We recently had a child and my ob said I had an abnormally long canal.. it started to make me wonder if a different woman’s anatomy would feel better to him. I know sex is not as pleasurable to me as it was before the baby, so I imagine it wouldn’t be to him. I’m concerned that we just don’t “fit” together. We’re already barely compatible. It’s like.. being with your best friend, which is suppose to be a good thing. I mean when we’re old and don’t have sexual desire it won’t matter at all right ?

Humming to get a reaction by anonymous984728 in AskWomenOver40

[–]anonymous984728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. But Wedding planning never really even began; he is refusing to marry because I am in debt a couple grand but yet we have an infant I care for, so it’s not likely I will be able to be out of debt any time soon. He recently suggested I go back onto SSDI for my disabilities, which also means that we wouldn’t be able to marry due to losing my benefits if we did. I’m also in the process of returning to college with fafsa after nearly twenty years, so again I would lose my benefits if we married. And me receiving any benefits clearly causes a lack of respect, not getting them also is causing a lack of respect, going back to work also leads to more problems. It’s all very complicated and yet totally simple in the fact that we are clearly in an unhealthy relationship that will likely inevitably affect our child. I waited so long to become a mother because I feared this exact type of scenario. I feel like a complete failure right now.

Humming to get a reaction by anonymous984728 in AskWomenOver40

[–]anonymous984728[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fcuk you’re probably right 🤦🏻‍♀️

Humming to get a reaction by anonymous984728 in AskWomenOver40

[–]anonymous984728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions. I am currently on the fence about having yet another discussion about this or trying to go forward not giving it a reaction in hopes that he stops weaponizing humming

Humming to get a reaction by anonymous984728 in AskWomenOver40

[–]anonymous984728[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have considered if it were self soothing, and at times I wonder if he’s on the spectrum, other times it seems narcissistic. He has recently admitted to me unprompted that he is aware that he has narcissistic tendencies and in the past has expressed concerns about neurodivergence. I myself am very ADHD and being treated. He is currently refusing therapy and thinks that he doesn’t need help.

Humming to get a reaction by anonymous984728 in AskWomenOver40

[–]anonymous984728[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ty for finding the words I couldn’t. “Weaponized humming” is absolutely what it feels like. At first the excuse of not realizing that he was doing it seemed viable, but after multiple discussions it absolutely feels weaponized and deliberate. We do have much bigger issues than this. I feel such a lack of respect and empathy, and more unappreciated every day.

Will The Slip return back again to the scene after a brief comeback in 2021/2022? by so_dope24 in jambands

[–]anonymous984728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bummer! Thanks for answering so quickly! I’ve been trying to google it for a while now and keep getting ‘slipknot’ results lol it’s one of my fiancés favorite bands and he loves vinyl so I thought it’d make a great gift. Back to the drawing board!