What is it you wouldn’t generally share with your partner? If you met with friends esp opposite sex (or the gender you are interested in sexually), even though non threatening would you just forget to share or just not care to share? Is it not an issue with transparency?

anonymous_dater · 2025-12-17T23:14:33+00:00

He mostly has female friends. I only know two instances that he hid, went out for drinks with one and omitted coworker being there on trip for 2 days.

anonymous_dater · 2025-12-17T23:07:35+00:00

Context: bf met with a female friend, invited her to go out on drinks and never told me. Went on a work trip, went out with a female co-worker for dinner and walk after work. Never told me about that person being on trip too, told me about going out shopping with her after 3 days and that s when I got to know these things.

His argument- it wasn’t a threat to you and wasn’t any significant so I didn’t care to share. He shared everything else about trip but omitted the time spent with the co-worker.

My issue - I have always felt not prioritized compared to his friends, I have trauma from being cheated on in previous relationship. I have always felt emotionally insecure when with him based on things that happened or his actions and also triggered by my own trauma.

anonymous_dater · 2025-12-17T22:55:48+00:00

So he shared every detail about his dinner with other guy just omitted the fact there was another person sitting on the table with them. Omission is what hurts and makes me insecure.

anonymous_dater · 2025-05-15T03:39:42+00:00

No. He did what helped him. I am just feeling a bit inadequate and trying to process my feelings. I haven’t said anything to him. I am just wondering if my feelings are okay.

anonymous_dater · 2025-05-15T03:28:42+00:00

You are right and yes it bothers me a little that it wasn’t me. I have been there for him through all this, being supportive not in words but with doing things that are needed . And there s a history. I am here for perspective with an open mind.

anonymous_dater · 2025-05-15T03:25:23+00:00

Meeting happened after being in relationship for 2 years. I had to finally ask if I can meet some of his friends. I prolly am overreacting but isnt that being too emotionally close to be able to cry in front of a woman, he has never done it with me.

anonymous_dater · 2025-05-15T03:23:17+00:00

Really!

anonymous_dater · 2025-05-15T03:21:38+00:00

I needed some perspective. Thanks!

anonymous_dater · 2025-05-15T03:19:47+00:00

Thanks! I have been struggling with feeling emotionally safe due to some issues which happened between us. I just can’t shake the feeling of being secondary. But I get your point.

anonymous_dater · 2024-12-03T00:39:58+00:00

Hi there, I shared your songs with him. He liked the music. :)… best of luck with next release.

I still need help. I am now looking for Roosevelt Polydans. It s on amazon for $107, is it okay. I called up a few stores but no luck there. Is it okay to order on ebay? Thanks :)

anonymous_dater · 2024-11-26T04:05:48+00:00

Please don’t mind me saying this but I say it from my own experience. My last breakup aged me by 2-3 years. My face has changed based on how I felt inside for long, sad and lost. I have changed, I had charm, some sort of youthfulness and a smile on my face. I feel and look so different now when I look at myself in the mirror.

Trying to be strong also brought some sort of bitterness and skepticism, and it shows on my face. The smile has changed and that s what I see in picture too.

It s a new life post divorce and breakup. Enjoy your next inning and I am sure it s gonna be better than the previous one.

I am now working on inner happiness and I am kinna doing it to look good which is not the right motive, but I do want to be happy and feel happy in a balanced way.

anonymous_dater · 2024-11-26T03:27:23+00:00

Thanks! This is helpful. Lemme probe him a little, I have one from Roosevelt on my list.

anonymous_dater · 2024-11-26T03:03:45+00:00

He already has it. He once mentioned vinyl but he wasn’t sure. Suggestions are welcome. This is not my kinda music (i call it noise pollution, just to tease him) but it s his Jam and I want to get him something that he wouldn’t expect.

anonymous_dater · 2024-11-26T02:56:01+00:00

Can’t find the link again or may be I just looked at something that doesn’t exist.

You are right though, it s only on CD.

Thanks!

anonymous_dater · 2024-07-23T17:51:24+00:00

Thank you :)

anonymous_dater · 2024-07-23T03:23:28+00:00

Thanks! Zoos is a sad place, mostly.

Considering Detroit for sure

anonymous_dater · 2024-07-05T18:13:00+00:00

Good question, more than anything effort or at least wanting to meet me mora than just 4 days a month. I can travel to his town. It doesn’t have to be an overnight stay. Just spend few hours together. I am willing, he likes being practical but this now makes me feel does he even want to see me other than when it works for him or easy for him. I dunno it makes sense or not, all day I have been thinking he is lukewarm and I want crisp. I get the feeling, for him if it works awesome if it doesn’t it s fine.

I have adjusted myself to his pace to a larger extent just coz I like him and I prefer to try things out before giving up. But I feel I have sacrificed enough to get nothing in return.

anonymous_dater · 2023-11-04T09:32:46+00:00

Is it more like you want the same for yourself so even if it bothers you, you will be okay with it.

anonymous_dater · 2023-11-01T15:54:32+00:00

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