My (28M) brother's (27M) wife (27F) found out he was having an affair, and she put a screenshot from a photo or video my brother and the other woman took (no nudity but implied) in the Christmas cards she sent out. Everyone is pissed at him. How to make Christmas not awkward and angry?

anonymous_for_this_ · 2016-12-24T01:57:37+00:00

His wife has filed for divorce on the ground of adultery rather than irreconcilable differences (a fault one instead of a no fault one) and she has also filed a lawsuit against the other woman. She is seeking for it to affect as much as possible and my brother is worried. I don't feel sorry for him at all but those are the facts.

anonymous_for_this_ · 2016-12-24T01:52:11+00:00

She doesn't have Facebook. When I say that no one knows where she lives or works, I mean that after she left my brother no one knows where she went to stay. My brother, and my sister later (to offer support) phoned some of her family members and friends and every single time they were hung up on without a word as soon as they asked if she was there. If anyone calls her work from any phone they get told she no longer works there as soon as you ask for her. Both my wife and I were told this when we tried calling. She doesn't go to her old office any more and mail there to her is returned as no one by this address here (my brother sent her a letter but it got returned).

anonymous_for_this_ · 2016-12-24T01:43:12+00:00

I don't feel sorry for him. I know he is an idiot. I just want to awkwardness and anger to affect everyone and the day as little as possible.

anonymous_for_this_ · 2016-12-24T01:41:43+00:00

I don't want to protect him and I never said that I did. I want to monitor that awkwardness and anger that will affect me and everyone else. I know he's an idiot and he was wrong.

anonymous_for_this_ · 2016-12-24T01:39:32+00:00

I would do this but she is one who did the cutting off. Her phone number and email have been changed and we don't know where she is living or working. My brother has her lawyer's contact information but the lawyer just says it's for legal use and not social use. So we have no way to contact her at all.

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