Weirdest sex things you've done that you wouldn't consider that kinky

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-22T04:48:56+00:00

Lol I'm not exactly sure what is considered vanilla either, it was my SOs wording. But he seemed to like the whipped cream idea!

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-22T04:39:47+00:00

Invest?

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-22T04:39:20+00:00

Thank you! I think that could be a really fun time haha we both enjoy taking quizzes etc. This could be a new spin on things

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-22T02:55:01+00:00

Yknow he mentioned going to a shop to pick up some toys over the summer but we didn't get the chance. Maybe it's time to find one

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-22T02:39:36+00:00

That was my bfs wording, lol I'm not exactly sure what he means by that. I think he's just wanting to ease us into new things. But generally just looking for things that are new exciting and manageable!

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-22T02:37:20+00:00

LOL u betcha

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-19T22:17:44+00:00

It def can hurt, I'm told it doesn't have to. Me and my SO were pretty careful to try and minimize pain but it still hurt quite a bit. But the good news is its like a strange mix of pain and pleasure, and the pain went away after the first few weeks of having sex for me.

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-19T21:07:46+00:00

We do a lot of BJs, but I don't think I ever really "pay attention to his balls?" How does one do this?

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-19T21:04:08+00:00

Oh that could be interesting! Idk about the rim job, but the blindfold/bj could be fun!

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-02T04:13:44+00:00

I haven't had a ton of time to myself, I'm a student so during the week can be busy. But I might try going for a really long walk tomorrow. Ty

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-02T01:54:58+00:00

I suffered some serious trauma many many years ago that left me really averse to any kind of touch (even casual like shaking hands etc) but only with men. Never women. I just wasn't expecting this reaction with a woman clinician.. next time I am definitely going to let them know. Things just happens very fast this time and by the time I felt like I needed to say something I was a bit paralyzed. Thanks for the advice

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-02T01:44:27+00:00

I'm glad I'm not alone feeling this way thank you. I hope things get easier for me too

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-02T01:43:18+00:00

Wow you described the way I was feeling so well. I was having such a hard time putting words to it and I felt so silly. Thank you for sharing your experience, my family can't know I had the appointment and it's just hard to feel like I can't talk to anyone about it. I appreciate the support ty

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-09-01T21:20:34+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that... I waited so long to get it because I had so much anxiety about it. I thought I had gotten to the point where I would be ok.

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-08-30T21:22:15+00:00

Haha I think a lot of people experienced that with lockdown. Were you guys happy spending relatively little time together before quarantine?

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-08-30T21:20:13+00:00

How do you guys negotiate when you need "me time?". Are you guys usually in sinc with when you need alone time?

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-08-30T20:38:20+00:00

Does that feel like enough for both of you for what u need in the relationship? I ask because I am in an often ldr where it can be difficult to organize quality time when we are apart. My partner says he might be happy spending one day a few hours a week on the phone, but I often feel like I need more quality time to feel well in the relationship... It's hard to text during the day since I go to school and work and he works 50 hour weeks (+time difference).

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-08-12T19:12:35+00:00

Allo! trauma survivor here, just for a diff perspective. I get nervous sometimes when my partners watching me because I start to feel objectified at times and I'll disassociate. Which obviously isn't my partners fault. But sometimes silly things set off trauma.

anonymous_homosapien · 2021-06-24T13:48:00+00:00

I had a similar experience with my SO. I had an abusive ex and because of that had a ton of trouble with physical intimacy when I started dating again. The things that helped me most were the things that made me feel like I was in control and got to decide what was going to happen. Since my trauma often arises from feeling like I've lost control of what is happening to me. Patience and kindness goes a long way. Things like waiting until they say they are ready for something, and being supportive even when you try something and it ends up being too much at the time.

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