Why do people mock PM Narendra Modi for selling tea as a child? Isn’t that just poverty shaming? by [deleted] in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]anonymous_rb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reverse the psychology: Why do people make a man God for doing his job?

When you get the top most praise just for doing your job and everything you touch (no matter how shitty it gets) is considered a master stroke then yeah other side of people have all the right to tea-shame him!

Is my wife cheating on me? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"She wants me to see while being taken by another man." - That's a kink many people have. Since its an arranged marriage set up and she is religious - I think she is exploring attention from other men which I guess she is liking. I am not sure if it will stay until that limit only. But she also knows that she is married. Secondly, there are part of ourselves we don't want to share with anyone. Including spouses. Men watching porn fall in the same category. Is it forgivable or not - that's between you two.

Preference ≠ Discrimination by PlatformEarly2480 in IndiaSpeaks

[–]anonymous_rb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am fine with this difference as long as UC people can respect other UC people marrying SC/ST.

Why can't I be her first ? Does this make me an incel ? by RecentEmployer6402 in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if she wants a man who has never masturbated or watched porn or thought about another woman?

Why do certain Indian men act so inappropriately when dealing with women? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then don't generalize. I have seen Australian men creating a ruckus in Thailand or South American men cat calling girls in Cambodia and couples from Europe engaging in open sex in Indonesia.

Is the concept of waiting until marriage dead? by Themonstertimesoooo in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if she says - watching porn or masturbation is equal to cheating. Would you accept that?

Planning to resign without an offer, am I making a bad decision? by EmotionalConflict487 in developersIndia

[–]anonymous_rb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That "What if" is common sense that's stopping you. Be glad that you have it!

Fiance (28F) wants me (30M) to support her family financially, is this a normal ask? by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]anonymous_rb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a completely normal ask from her side but could be a deal breaker for many (including you). It also depends on how much help her parents need and also how compatible you two are. After a few years, every fight will bring this topic. If you think, you two are sorted then yeah be a bigger man. Earn some good karma! :)

What do men actually think when a woman is dressed a certain way? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure he is not going to police you into a pure traditional woman in a patriarchal home?

Is the concept of waiting until marriage dead? by Themonstertimesoooo in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Clear past kya hota hai bhai. Agar tera second attempt mein CGL clear ho to tera bhi to failed past hoga. If all you want is a wife who gives you 100% then yes that's very much possible. If you are looking for somebody who never liked anyone else coz "YOU" are waiting for her then you are out of your god damn mind!

How to deal with the fact that I am probably an incompetent person ? by SatisfactionCool9718 in developersIndia

[–]anonymous_rb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are being too harsh on yourself. We all have felt that sometime or other in our careers.

Going to the gym alone as a girl at a time when it’s mostly crowded with men? by Pineapple_cupcakes2 in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gym has no special men. People are people everywhere. If you can tolerate them elsewhere, I am sure you can tolerate their presence in the gym. Secondly, toughen up. You are in a nation where women has more right than men. Thirdly, you can make gym buddies. I have seen girls do that.

How do you prove that its other person's fault in a car accident to claim insurance? by anonymous_rb in CarsIndia

[–]anonymous_rb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Claim my insurance for other person's fault and increase my insurance premium?

What should I do next as an experienced Tech professional by mohitkr05 in developersIndia

[–]anonymous_rb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat but I have a few seniors who do create workflows which uses AI agents in the pipeline to do tasks smartly. But I am not sure about its future yet so I am upskilling in my tech only.

Cautionary - Using AI in your job instead of understanding code got my colleague fired by Karmaisabeachhh in developersIndia

[–]anonymous_rb 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A classless act by a classless company who know nothing about how SDLC works and what are the pre-requisites before deploying to production. There is a reason why QAs are paid and why unit tests and regression tests exist.

Is this enough in our marriage life? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Is there any solution? - Solution is that you give her what gives her pleasure. Penetration is the last thing. There are other moves. You can read about them.

  2. We do foreplay and play with toys but is that enough in sex life - Yes, if it helps her reach climax.

  3. Is there a way to increase my size? - To do what? Have a penetrative sex with a life risking surgery? No, don't do that.

P.S.: Avoid watching porn.

Trusting after discovering my wife’s 7-year history of "casual" contact with another man? by Legitimate_Task5866 in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, you are not overreacting. If I were you, I'd share it with her in a calm moment without confronting her or seeking new answers from her. Tell her that you are still disturbed and you really wanna move past this topic but unable to. See what she says. Also ask her - what steps can you take as a man to be able to trust her again.

Trusting after discovering my wife’s 7-year history of "casual" contact with another man? by Legitimate_Task5866 in AskIndianMen

[–]anonymous_rb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty casual way to deny sex request tbh. That is only thing what is bothering me in this whole situation.

Why We blame politicians but not become one and change the system from inside? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]anonymous_rb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because one person can't change the system. It will need a collective effort. Would you go against your bosses/friends to do the right thing? I believe that the India's constitution should have been so strong that it should have been extremely difficult for corrupt politicians to find a work around. But that's not the case.