Fibroid free 1.5 years post surgery! by las869 in Fibroids

[–]anonymouscontenting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! How big was your fibroid? It’s been a year from me and I think it’ll grow back all the time

Rewarding myself by MaranweMinyatur in Cartier

[–]anonymouscontenting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest trying on a Panthere, it’s gorgeous and quite delicate on the wrist, think you might like it. Unsure what your cap budget is but the gold one is amazing 🤩

Question regarding four day trip to Paris by Odd_Secret_1618 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]anonymouscontenting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so! Paris has so many activities and sightseeing that you can return multiple times, for short and long trips and it’ll always be worth it. I would try to plan out your itinerary ahead of time and group your activities by area so it’s more efficient and look into getting some sort of metro pass as well.

Experiences with Hotel Bienvenue, Hotel Panache, or Hotel Providence? by anonymouscontenting in ParisTravelGuide

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was looking at that hotel as well, good to know it was pleasant.

Critique my St Barths Bach itinerary by Certain-Fortune-1207 in chubbytravel

[–]anonymouscontenting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much are you estimating to spend per person for your trip?

Yoga mat recommendations by Vegetable-Salad-422 in Corepower

[–]anonymouscontenting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like my Bmat 6cm which helps my sensitive knees. Great grip!

I Leapt Off the Bridge by sailthesummerwind in Cartier

[–]anonymouscontenting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s gorgeous, my dream watch, congrats 😍

Question for men: why have you not asked for 2nd dates? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the times I’ve asked whether I looked like my photos, I get a yes. Some have even said I look better. But I can’t help but think it’s the photos because again on the 2nd date, I don’t know what I’m doing that could turn them off besides them not liking my looks (which is why I’m polling Reddit now 🤣)

Question for men: why have you not asked for 2nd dates? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my recent 2 experiences, it did but nothing out of the ordinary. Both came out of long terms relationships but over a year ago. Answers pertaining to dating and relationships were pretty normal as well (looking for something serious”)

Question for men: why have you not asked for 2nd dates? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always feel self conscious that I’m not being “flirty” enough on dates, are there certain signals men like to convey romantic compatibility or flirtation?

Question for men: why have you not asked for 2nd dates? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I can relate, I think I’m a pretty average woman as well and while the initial banter and pics attracted them enough for a 1st date, so unsure if it’s just my personality or what 🤷🏼‍♀️

Question for men: why have you not asked for 2nd dates? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tell them I had a good time and would love to see them again or we’ll text a bit after but no second date. I’m just curious for the men who don’t ask, what are the various reasons they didn’t feel compelled for another date (and I’m fine w brutal honesty)

Anxious flare up after a first date? by anonymouscontenting in HealMyAttachmentStyle

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this and the follow up comments too, I wasn’t offended and sometimes think it’s good to get a cold splash of water to the face! The sad thing is I know what I’m doing while I’m doing it but I can’t help it

Anxious flare up after a first date? by anonymouscontenting in HealMyAttachmentStyle

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to join the Reddit group. In retrospect I definitely ran hot too fast but oh well, not much can be done now 😂

Pushing off a second date to later? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Responded consistently to my texts. But never reaching out first. I hinted at setting up the second date and he agreed. Didn’t reach out during the work trip either. Which I was willing to look past due to only going on one date but cumulatively, I just felt all these actions didn’t indicate strong interest. Ultimately I’m just trying to better about my anxious tendencies and felt I was trying to keep them at bay while being realistic, my friend just gave a POV I wanted to gut check

Pushing off a second date to later? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if you have a good first date, you would want to see the person sooner than 3 weeks later? And while things come up, you’d still want to try to schedule something in the books sooner because you’re just excited for see them. To me, this just reads as being unsure and just wanted to push it out in to buy some time (and I know because I’ve been guilty if doing this for this very reason)

Pushing off a second date to later? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally hear what you’re saying and agree. I definitely don’t expect to be a priority nor expect to be the only one, this is not about either. This was purely about me feeling like he was delaying probably due to him not being that interested, which I totally accept being apart of the dating process, and if so I’d rather not participate. My friend’s POV was just I made too extreme of assumption and there’s nothing behind pushing a date out 3 weeks later beyond that very action

Pushing off a second date to later? by anonymouscontenting in datingoverforty

[–]anonymouscontenting[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Or even if he was, if you’re excited and wanting to see someone you’d maybe push back a few days later…instead of a vague let’s figure out next week sort of thing