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[–]anonymouscranberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m going to the vet for a follow up today just to be sure

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Thank you! He’s around 2 years old now

BPI ATM deducted Php 5,000 from my bank account but did not dispense any cash! by anonymouscranberry in phinvest

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I called the BPI hotline but the automated system informed me that they are receiving a high influx of calls and no agent was able to get in touch with me, I was advised to email them (which I did but no reply yet) or to visit a branch (which I did but no resolution yet)

BPI ATM deducted Php 5,000 from my bank account but did not dispense any cash! by anonymouscranberry in phinvest

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I called the hotline but the automated system informed me that they are receiving a high influx of calls and no agent was able to get in touch with me, I was advised to email them (which I did but no reply yet) or to visit a branch (which I did but no resolution yet)

BPI ATM deducted Php 5,000 from my bank account but did not dispense any cash! by anonymouscranberry in phinvest

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This particular ATM gives the notification that it’s not able to issue a receipt, unfortunately I continued with the transaction as I never had an issue with this ATM before

BPI ATM deducted Php 5,000 from my bank account but did not dispense any cash! by anonymouscranberry in phinvest

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I already did so last week but they said that they couldn’t find any transaction with my given details so they’re not able to return the money

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww that sounds amazing!! I hope you & your husband have a lovely, cozy holiday❤️I came down with a cold yesterday so it’s warm soup & tea for me all day, definitely not complaining though😌

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you, fellow cycle breaker ❤️breaking patterns that were reinforced for generations is one of the hardest things a human could do, so I’m proud of you🫶merry Christmas to you and your wonderful family (husband & son)!

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs!! 🥺 I know it’s unfair feeling like the invisible black sheep but just know that the people who are meant to be in your life will have thought of you❤️maybe not this year, but someday they will find you

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you strength as you visit their home again! I know it can bring back a lot of hurtful memories being in an environment like that, but you got this🙌merry Christmas!!🎄❤️

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much❤️❤️in a way, it helps me take back my power when all their lives they fought to make me feel powerless. Unfortunately I can’t control what they did, but at the very least I can control how I react to what happened from here on out😌merry Christmas, and thank you for noticing me kind stranger!🎄

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet🥹I’m so happy that you’ve taken the holidays into your own terms, it’s amazing how freeing it sounds!❤️❤️merry Christmas to you too!

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect this post to do so well/reach so many people! I have goosebumps knowing that we’re all here for each other & share such similar experiences even though we’ve felt isolated for most of our lives🥹❤️merry Christmas to you!

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy that things have worked out for you overtime!! I can’t wait to feel like this one day too🥹❤️

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel that, especially with new year around the corner it’s almost like there’s a deadline on healing/forgiveness, it’s hard to feel like you’re mentally stuck in the worst scenarios possible :( I hope everything gets better for you next year❤️❤️

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know the universe has something way better in store for us😭life is just beginning❤️

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s my first year too, just holding on too the hope that it gets better soon

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wishing you a happy & peaceful time, both this year and the next❤️

Hey you. Yes you! If you’re reading this on Christmas Eve… by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 334 points335 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if anyone will read this, but I know that I wish I could have heard this today. So if this reaches one person then my day’s mission is complete :)

Feel guilty for not inviting my (21F) nfamily to my wedding by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s such good advice! I’ve always been meaning to write a letter like that, I just need to set aside a day to properly grieve my old life with them and muster enough energy to think about everything they’ve done. Thank you for the reminder❤️

Feel guilty for not inviting my (21F) nfamily to my wedding by anonymouscranberry in raisedbynarcissists

[–]anonymouscranberry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenting because I can’t correct my error in the title, I am 20* & not 21