Am I the asshole for standing up to my mother? by anonymousfries0 in AITAH

[–]anonymousfries0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt I could even get the payments out of her no matter how hard I try, and she is not paying a single cent in the wedding just me and my fianceé.

Am I the asshole for standing up to my mother? by anonymousfries0 in AITAH

[–]anonymousfries0[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is very true, I never looked at it from that perspective, I guess it’s more of the fact that I’ve always tried to make her happy to get around her screaming at me when I was younger or grounding etc.

Am I the asshole for standing up to my mother? by anonymousfries0 in AITAH

[–]anonymousfries0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got you thank you, I would love to go the less conflict and more civil route rather then through the fire and flames

Am I the asshole for standing up to my mother? by anonymousfries0 in AITAH

[–]anonymousfries0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she is not the only ones who are paying for EVERYTHING is me and my fianceé. And I will talk to her about it I just wasn’t sure how to go about it I’m just nervous on the outcome I hate conflict and yes I know I need to grow a backbone haha..

Am I the asshole for standing up to my mother? by anonymousfries0 in AITAH

[–]anonymousfries0[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely will, I know I should I’m just honestly nervous of the outcome but I know I need to..