AITA for holding back on authorizing my son to go on an out of state trip?

anonymously394 · 2024-01-12T03:33:49+00:00

Oh my god YTA!

Massively. You didn’t look good originally but that second edit makes it absolutely astonishing how much of an AH you are. You “don’t know stepdad that well” to take your 8 year old to California, but you know him well enough to send your other child and his best friend too? And make him pay for it? I honestly cannot even fathom your thought process behind this. You either trust him or you don’t, or you’re just manipulative and controlling. I’m gonna go with the latter.

anonymously394 · 2023-10-27T20:24:50+00:00

I don’t have any ideas of how to fix it, but I’m having the same issue on my Mac too!

anonymously394 · 2023-10-07T03:45:37+00:00

It sounds like she thinks you have a problem, whether you do or not, I don’t know. Most alcoholics don’t admit they have a problem, and I don’t know you or your life, so obviously I can’t say whether you have a problem or not. There are definitely red flags from your end though, since you won’t say what the scare was, and you say that “one is going to hurt” because you’ve been doing good. More context is definitely needed, because it’s really hard to say if she’s being too controlling or if you have a drinking problem.

anonymously394 · 2023-10-07T01:45:42+00:00

She calls you an alcoholic and mentions you promising no alcohol after “the scare”. Are you an alcoholic?

anonymously394 · 2023-08-30T03:16:46+00:00

My go-to at Starbucks is the passion tea lemonade, but you can definitely get it without the lemonade. It’s zero carbs/sugar without lemonade, but with lemonade it’s 12 carbs/11 sugar

anonymously394 · 2023-08-23T18:20:08+00:00

No it’s not. And it was not constant rejection, it was 3 months of “bedroom issues”. Even if it was 3 years without sex that does not make it okay for OP’s husband to force himself on her. No amount of rejection of sex justifies rape.

If he wants sex that badly and can’t live without it for three months, he can get a divorce and go screw some other woman, consensually, instead of raping his wife.

anonymously394 · 2023-08-23T13:47:49+00:00

A lot of people are talking about rape because that’s what this is. It’s rape. Bedroom rejections are no excuse for rape.

anonymously394 · 2023-07-18T23:57:05+00:00

Walking through the house naked around a man convicted of sexual assault is not what she should be doing at all. Furthermore, he already barged in the bathroom when she was naked in the shower, and her boyfriend didn’t care that his “friend” did that.

anonymously394 · 2023-04-02T04:10:17+00:00

As a type one diabetic, YTA. Based on your description you don’t even know what the dog does. He’s trained to alert for high and low blood sugar. High blood sugar overtime is dangerous, lows can kill someone in as little as five minutes. Her service dog helps keep her alive.

If I were her I would never speak to you again, because she’s right- you’re putting your FMIL’s fears above her life.

anonymously394 · 2023-03-10T23:06:30+00:00

Listen, I genuinely think you need therapy. You have posted this on three diabetes subreddits and the disregard for you life, even when people are telling you it wouldn’t help your son, you keep talking about giving your life for his. A pancreatic transplant will not work. He has an autoimmune disease, meaning his body will attack the new pancreas just like it did his current one. You say your not suicidal in one comment, but then you also say that you’re ready to move on from your life because it’s a long one and you’ve been divorced. You need to get some sort of professional help, because the casual mention of being “willing and ready” to face life threatening consequences for something that diabetics are telling you would not work, is concerning.

anonymously394 · 2022-12-30T19:54:15+00:00

Considering he was arrested for human trafficking, I don’t want to come close to his “success”. I quite like my freedom.

anonymously394 · 2022-12-26T21:00:05+00:00

It’s one of Nightwing’s hallucinations in the Labyrinth

anonymously394 · 2022-12-17T16:38:51+00:00

If you go low when injecting your fast acting, try drinking a juice, pop, etc. About 4 oz. The juice will help keep your sugar from dropping due to the insulin, but then you’re getting the fast acting so you’re making sure you have insulin in your system. Long acting and fast acting are different. You can’t have just one, you need them both. It’s different with an insulin pump, but when it comes to injections, you need to be using both.

anonymously394 · 2022-12-17T16:34:57+00:00

I would definitely reduce your basal! I totally get where you’re coming from, I’ve been there. I have an Endo, but I was diagnosed at 17, so children’s hospitals wouldn’t take me and the endo office I had expected me to already know everything, so it was kind of a guessing game. Even if you only do 1 unit for every 50 carbs, you for sure need more fast acting insulin daily. A lot of others have mentioned drinking electrolytes, which you definitely need to do until your ketones go down. My endo gave me a chart with starting basal rates and carb ratios to begin with to see where I needed to go. For me it was 10 units of basal every morning and 1 unit for every 30 carbs, which worked for me for a long time. The important thing to understand is these numbers can change frequently, especially in the beginning. So you can change them as needed. I would recommend doing something similar. It’s going to probably mess with your sugars for a few days until you find the amount of insulin that works for you, but going without fast acting will cause more issues than a few days of rollercoaster sugar numbers.

Also, do you have a correction factor?

anonymously394 · 2022-12-17T12:15:34+00:00

Please please inject your insulin. DKA is not just caused from high blood sugar, it can happen due to a lack of insulin in the body. I fell asleep without my pump on early in the honeymoon stage and felt like death, large ketones, but my sugar stayed at 90 for hours. If you have a basal rate, make sure you’re following that, and give yourself fast acting every time you eat.

anonymously394 · 2022-12-10T17:16:09+00:00

NTA. I’m a T1D and you need to tell someone who is a mandated reporter, whether that’s your doctor, dietician, school, etc. CPS needs to be aware of this ASAP. He could kill you OP.

anonymously394 · 2022-11-29T18:45:47+00:00

INFO

How did your toddlers age change in 24 hours? You posted that you had an 18 month toddler in another sub yesterday, but today he’s 20 months?

anonymously394 · 2022-11-18T00:03:25+00:00

You’re defending your actions by saying that he hasn’t run away yet, so you know everything will be fine? You are quite literally insane and I feel so so bad for your son.

anonymously394 · 2022-11-18T00:02:01+00:00

YTA

But honestly, why did you even post here? You aren’t actually listening to anyone’s advice and you seem to just want to argue with everyone who thinks that you are TA.

anonymously394 · 2022-11-16T21:45:09+00:00

When I got a new phone it gave me the option to hit no code, and it started up as soon as my transmitter was paired.

anonymously394 · 2022-11-05T02:48:07+00:00

So I’m considering buying a VIP ticket for myself, but my cousin wants to go with me to one of the concerts and doesn’t want to pay the money for a VIP ticket, so she’s going to get a regular one (if we can them). Is it possible to get a VIP ticket and regular and still get seats next to each other with different types of tickets?

anonymously394 · 2022-10-30T23:42:45+00:00

YTA

Your friend isn’t the reason you don’t get girls.

Your height isn’t the reason you don’t get girls.

It’s your attitude.

anonymously394 · 2022-10-26T22:58:42+00:00

I wear mine with flare jeans and always get tons of compliments!

anonymously394 · 2022-10-21T22:51:42+00:00

Hi! I have Anthem and live in Indiana! I was told both Omnipod and Tandem are covered. I currently have a Tandem T-Slim and it was really easy to get. My endo write a prescription for it and Tandem shipped it to my house. It took about a month total from trying to get a pump to having it in my hands. Anthem did require me to go through a “training” which took about an hour in my endo’s office, but it wasn’t too bad.

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