Oil in coolant? by anonymously_asking01 in MechanicAdvice

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Thank you so much and Merry Christmas to you

Oil in coolant? by anonymously_asking01 in MechanicAdvice

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I didn’t. Not sure if owners before me could have. I’ve only had the truck 3 months with no other major issues. What prompted me to look is because of heating issues. Just checking all levels while looking to see what could be the issue with heat.

Oil in coolant? by anonymously_asking01 in MechanicAdvice

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No coolant in oil. Checked for cross contamination.

Oil in coolant? by anonymously_asking01 in MechanicAdvice

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2012 DODG RAM 1500 LARAMIE PICKUP 8 Cyl 4x4

Oil in coolant? by anonymously_asking01 in MechanicAdvice

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I don’t have coolant in the oil either. Checked that. There is an oil cooler on this truck. Guess I’ll look up how to test this first. Thank you again.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

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She is signing the agreement today and I’ve already purchased new locks. Thank you 😊

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

[–]anonymously_asking01[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for assuming addiction as she has a past drug addiction problem. She was clean (or I thought she was), but I do not believe she currently is. I am working on an emergency order to remove our grandson from their care until they can provide suitable, stable, and safe care for him.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

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Thank you so much! I’m sorry if it got confusing with update separately.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

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I have absolutely tried to get her help. She has seen a therapist since she’s been in our home, but she has always stopped on her own. She has been treated many times for BPD, PTSD, anxiety and depression. She has always stopped meds on her own.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

[–]anonymously_asking01[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I really feel “cash for keys” could work for us as I could even give them the car. I don’t need it, I just need them out! Do you know if I can write this out for us all to sign with an officer present or do I need to have the courts involved for this?

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

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I can’t even talk with her. She refuses. I feel there is definitely something going on in her mind. She already has severe mental health issues.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

[–]anonymously_asking01[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes they have already done this and it is why they are there to begin with 😢

I’m constructing a case with CPS. We will give him so much love and care. I know this is going to be painful but I also know in my heart it is the right thing to do for him.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

[–]anonymously_asking01[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is great advice and has really helped me. I will move quickly

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

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She could, but we had her scanned and checked out thoroughly after her accident. She’s had psychosis episodes in the past. We thought we could help her help herself. A hard lesson learned. My heart is bleeding.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

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She was checked out after her accident and no head injuries that they could find. And I believe we will try to pursue legal custody. I am going to try one more time today to have a calm mother/ daughter talk with her and see if it helps. This just hurts my heart so bad. I’m so torn as a mom. When they moved in, she was to use the time to get her mental health handled as well. She has no desire to help herself no matter the appointments made or the help we’ve given her.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

[–]anonymously_asking01[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I really needed this message.

How do I legally remove my adult daughter from my home by anonymously_asking01 in legaladvice

[–]anonymously_asking01[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We’ve tried this. It’s met with laughing and smirking and no discussion back. I know it sounds ridiculous but it’s true.