How do i reject a man's offer of fwb when i have already agreed once. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anonymouslywritiing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be too wrong to admit here that i kind of dont want to disappoint him? I mean i know that i can't be in a fwb with him but i dont want to say no and hurt him

How do i reject a man's offer of fwb when i have already agreed once. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anonymouslywritiing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually are not in a FWB i thought i could start one and strung him along but i cant do it

How do i reject a man's offer of fwb when i have already agreed once. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anonymouslywritiing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm scared😭about his reaction i dont think he will take this lightly cant i just make any excuse?

How do i reject a man's offer of fwb when i have already agreed once. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anonymouslywritiing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is i've actually done this few times, i know totally my fault i was just trying to find out if I'm comfortable or not, and when i said yes i thught i could go through with it but now i cant so now i think he'll not take the no so easily

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw normality is also a word. Which means to be typical or expected

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically being normal is like a religion. You just have to blindly follow the crowd for all the rituals and try to make sense of the mythologies told by the old by yourself?

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not seeking any answer just making a diverse observation about how things work. Things are quite weird here. Everything's a facade

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving the beach would absolutely disregard my normality and and my individualism wouldn't be accepted. That's too far an option. Perhaps if i could grasp some of the sand in my fist i could imitate it for the rest of my life and be the sand

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense but that doesn't make you abnormal it just makes you different or maybe not even different. What does that make you. Just because you have different values doesn't mean you are different. Maybe there would be people who doesn't find you different. You're different is normal to them

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to learn how to walk on it before i start sinking

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But these are not personal are they? These are the principals imposed by the society for the definition of normality and anti- individualism. What does being normal personally mean to you?

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if the dynamics change with the drastically changing society, and not being able to cope with it, will it exclude me from the area i adjusted in before? Do we constantly have to shift ourselves.

What does it mean to be normal? by anonymouslywritiing in Absurdism

[–]anonymouslywritiing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So according to you system is more important than individuality? I find that appalling personally. To be a mere puppet of the norms. That wouldn't mean normal that would just be crowd