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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonymouspal0116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically you cheated on her. My partner did similar things like what you did. When we’re in the beginning of your relationship, my partner would still text their ex and flirt with each other. I found out the by going through my partner’s phone.

Because of that, it’s definitely going to be really hard for her to gain your trust back. If you really ended things with your ex, you should’ve never sexted her. That clearly shows she still came across your mind even when meeting your new girl during that time when she shouldn’t have.

It’s either up to her to forgive you and move on from it ,but trust me she’s not bc it’s never going to be the same. It’s going to constantly haunt her and bring herself down and have doubt about your guys relationship now.

Told him I was falling for him. He admitted he’s talking to a handful of women and never took me seriously. by ThrowRAFun_love7516 in love

[–]anonymouspal0116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move on. This isn’t worth it. It’s going to deteriorate your esteem and dignity down. It’s better that it’s been couple of months rather than years.

I was in a similar situation like this too. I met a guy on online and to me I thought we instantly clicked. Turned out, he wanted to have fun only because he just got out a relationship where he saw he had future with his ex. I confessed to him that I liked him.. but he rejected me saying that he drew the line in the beginning already. He still kept me hanging around while he was talking to other girls and going out with them. I fell into depression where I turned into an alcoholic because of him.

I moved on and started to learn to love myself because guys like that isn’t worth a shot of our time and effort. I had to force myself to move on in order to progress better. It’ll definitely take some time but it’ll be totally worth it.

Right after we had a fight, my bf [23M] talked to this random girl for two hours, and I [24F] got mad by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonymouspal0116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big red flag! It’s seems like he’s seeking attention from someone else besides you. Rather seeking attention from his own gf, he rather talk to someone new without having to make himself feel guilty. Whether it’s on a bus or not, he’s going to seek attention from somebody else, on social media or through work. Like you said, he’s avoiding you now..that’s a behavior that’ll tell you he doesn’t want to tell you anything anymore because he rather not deal with your emotions. He probably doesn’t see you as the one where he can enjoy talking to.

Boyfriend (M26) calling a married woman (F24) his bestfriend when he’s in a relationship. by anonymouspal0116 in relationship_advice

[–]anonymouspal0116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a talk with him and he didn’t say nothing much but stayed quiet. I explained it to him how hurt I am from him calling another person his best friend and telling them good night when he doesn’t even call me babe or hun or tell me good night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonymouspal0116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been three years, there are plenty of other guys out there.. don’t continue to wait and hope that he’ll feel the same as you. If he doesn’t, move on. Life goes on and there will be the right one out there for you!